John Alanis shares his dating secrets and tips on how to meet and pick up hot babes, sexy women thru online personals, and his unusual take on seduction and NLP.

Hey Guys,

 

I like to work.  A lot, actually.  I like getting things done, like being efficient, and like creating new things.  More often than not you’ll find me at home on a Friday evening, getting things done.

 

Do I work all the time?  No.  I reserve time for fun, but I do work a lot.  It’s something I enjoy doing and find fulfilling.

 

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There are only a certain number of things you can do with your time. You can party, drink, do drugs, cavort with any number of questionable women, buy things, go to the movies, watch TV or read or surf the web, travel, workout, work, etc.

 

Some things in the list are good, some bad, but the point is the list is pretty short.  There are only so many ways you can spend your time.

 

Now, while I do believe in the saying that no one ever died saying he should have spent more time at the office, I also know “spending time at the office” is an attractive thing.

 

Men who spend all their time cavorting and partying are, in the end, not very attractive to women.  Fun in the moment, yes, but the moment soon passes and the fun soon ends.  What’s left is a pretty dull man.

 

Spending time working and achieving gives you a multi-dimensional, multi-faceted personality most men lack but all women find attractive.  They can tell you are, indeed, the real deal, and NOT just “faking it ‘til you make it.”

 

Women are attracted to men who can provide financial and emotional security and the man who spends part of his life working and achieving provides both of these things.  The party boy provides neither, nor does he have any real knowledge.  His life is out of control, while the man who seeks to achieve is in complete control.

 

Don’t get me wrong—I most certainly do not believe in working all the time.  But it’s an important component of attraction that you work some of the time, seeking to achieve things other men don’t. 

 

That trait will set you aside from other men, keeping you attractive while the party boys get old, fat, poor and dumb.

 

On with the fun…

 

 

-John Alanis

“The King of Let ‘em Come to You”

 

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