John Alanis shares his dating secrets and tips on how to meet and pick up hot babes, sexy women thru online personals, and his unusual take on seduction and NLP.

Hey Guys—

 

I have long made the distinction between talkers and doers, recognizing that most of the world are talkers, interspersed with an elite few doers.

 

Why are there so many talkers and so few doers?  The answer is simple:  it’s easy to hide behind words and opinions instead of putting your ass on the line in the real world with the very real possibility of it getting bit.

 

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That’s why there are so many bloggers and youtube video creators who will crank out opinions and “content” all day long, but will never, ever spend a dime to advertise their opinions to the marketplace.

 

Talkers are afraid of pain, ego-bruising, loss and setbacks and will do anything to avoid them—including living a mediocre, safe life.  And they attract mediocre women who are never truly happy with them.

 

Doers, on the other hand, have footprints and callouses on their asses. They have scars, punctured egos, and a litany of failures a mile long.  They also have successes talkers never will.

 

They live exciting lives, full of APPARENT danger to talkers.  But that’s the rub—the so-called danger is not really dangerous.  Punctured egos re-inflate, and bruises fade quickly—but success earned is more persistent.  Doers recognize that mediocrity is the real danger, and avoid it at all costs.

 

If you read any romance novel (written by women, for women), the hero is always a doer.  He’s dangerous, he’s exciting, he’s passionate, and he’s always in motion.  Women are programmed to respond to doers, and avoid talkers.

 

Do they settle for talkers?  Sure, they settle.  But when a doer comes along, they bolt—and who wants to be a man a woman settles for anyways?

 

So be a doer.  Make it your philosophy of life.  Avoid talkers.  Get your ass kicked a few times and pull through it. Live a deliberately exciting life, and in the end you attract the woman you really want, one who really wants you.

 

Let the talkers keep talking.  They have no clue what they’re missing anyways.

 

On with the fun…

 

 

-John Alanis

“The King of Let ‘em Come to You”

 

PS  Be sure to check out my witty saying of the day (it comes with a picture of a hot woman, and you’ve got to see today’s), one line of wisdom, sarcasm and entertainment on my new blog at http://johnalanis.wordpress.com

It’s so cool you’ll want to pass it around and leave your own witty saying—see if you can top mine!

 

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