Hey Guys,
The past does not equal the future. Many of you have probably heard this, from Tony Robbins and others. It’s a bit trite by now, but it’s still an important message for you to understand when it comes to your relationships with women.
If you’re male, alive, and breathing, odds are you’ve had a relationship end with a woman in a way that sucks. And odds are, you’ve been hurt on an emotional level.
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Look, no matter how “hard” or manly you are, when a woman leaves you, it sucks. You can pretend to have a heart of stone, but it’s nothing more than pretend. We’re humans, we have emotions, and when a woman we care for leaves, it hurts really, really bad.
However, no matter how bad it hurts, you’ve got to get up off the mat and get back in the fight. Sure you want to take some time to get your wits about you, but you cannot let past wounds determine your future life.
Too many guys are too timid to take action today because of something that happened with a woman in the past. They’re afraid of getting hurt again because they remember how deep the last wound was.
But, wounds heal over time—if they didn’t, we wouldn’t exist as a species. And as great as the last woman was, there’s always another one of equal caliber out there.
Understand this: nothing that happened in your last relationship has any bearing on any future relationships unless you let it. Yes, you want to assess what went wrong, and learn from your mistakes, but other than that, what happened in the past has nothing to do with the future unless you carry that mental baggage with you.
I’m privileged to know a lot of great women, both now and from my past. And I can tell you this: women are not evil, and they are not out to hurt men. Quite the contrary—women want to be with men they are attracted to, and they really want to make you happy. Sometimes things just don’t work out.
So, if you’ve been hurt in the past, put all that aside. It has absolutely zero to do with your future success with women. In fact, it IS an opportunity for you to attract and forge a relationship with a woman even better than the last one.
Great women are not in short supply. I meet them every day, and I meet them every way. And they all want a smart, witty, naughty, fun, playful MAN to make them feel chemistry, regardless of what hurts you may have had in your past.
The past is the past. It’s over, done and gone with. Focus on the future and soon enough all those past bad emotions will be replaced with exhilaration and joy.
On with the fun…
-John Alanis
“The King of Let ‘em Come to You”
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