Hey Guys,
One of the most important beliefs of a man who is truly attractive to women is that all women are attracted to him. Some may not have realized it yet, but his mindset is, “of course women are attracted to me—why wouldn’t they be? I’m me!”
This sort of “genuine arrogance” seems counterintuitive—but it produces amazing results in the real world, and was one of my big breakthroughs.
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One thing that’s important about beliefs is reinforcing them. Bill Parcells used to say “confidence comes from demonstrated ability,” and it’s important you constantly demonstrate your ability, if only to reinforce your belief that all women are indeed attracted to you.
Whenever I interact with any woman, no matter if she’s old, or young, I always make it a point to see if I can get her to smile back and me and show initial signs of attraction.
Doesn’t matter who she is—maybe she’s a bank teller, a flight attendant, a waitress, a phone operator, or a woman I meet in the gym. No matter if I have 30 seconds or three hours, I want her to give off signs of initial attraction.
So, I always flash my best naughty boy smile, and make a playful, sarcastic comment designed to both get her to laugh AND to make one back.
That last part is important, and you should read it again. If she returns the sarcastic comment, the attraction process has begun. It’s the beginning of the give and take, the “rhythm of love,” so to speak. And if you can master the beginning, the rest easily follows.
You should make it a point to play a similar game with women too. Every time you interact with a woman, see if you can kick off the attraction process. It doesn’t have to lead anywhere, and most of the time it shouldn’t. But it allows you to constantly reinforce your all important belief that you are attractive to all women by demonstrating your ability.
That way, when a real opportunity comes your way, you can do what all champions do: play the game like you already won.
On with the fun…
-John Alanis
“The King of Let ‘em Come to You”
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