Hey Guys,
Way back when I was in high school (over 20 years ago now) there was a group of people we called PIB’s (People In Black).
You may know or remember the type—they dressed all in black, dyed their hair black (even if it was already black), and listened to The Cure all day and all night long. They kept to themselves, mostly, and were just plain weird.
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Apparently PIB’s still exist because South Park did a show on them several years ago, and the PIB’s on South Park looked, acted, and sounded just like the ones I knew so many years ago.
The interesting thing about this group of people was while they said they wanted to be left alone, what they really wanted was to be noticed by everyone. All of them secretly wanted the hottest woman in school to suddenly realize their professed set of beliefs and rituals was superior to everyone else’s so she would be attracted to them instead of the “in-crowd.”
That, of course, never happened. PIB’s erroneously believed (as many men in other groups do) that women would be attracted to them for external reasons, i.e. the way they dressed, their societal viewpoints, etc.
But women are not attracted to men for external reasons. Dyeing your hair black and wearing a Cure T-Shirt is exactly the same as buying a new, fancy car and flashing a wad of cash. While you may attract some women, they’re not the ones you want.
Women are attracted to men for internal reasons and attractive male behavior. If you have a strong sense of personal authority, a naughty, fun, playful side combined with a serious “get down to business” side, you will attract women no matter what color you dye your hair—or even if you have no hair at all (my apparent destiny in a few years).
On with the fun…
-John Alanis
“The King of Let ‘em Come to You”
PS Here’s what reminded me of the PIB’s from high school: a good friend of mine has a son who recently decided to dye his hair black, for whatever reason. But I don’t think his son (Brennan) is a true PIB—he wears purple pants, and has earned the name “Grape Juice” from his friends. And no true PIB would ever wear purple pants—or be given a nickname like that!
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