Hey Guys,
There’s a statement the girly men in the media love to throw around: “no means no.” And because they love this statement and things like it, they never attract any desirable women.
Misery does indeed love company.
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The truth is, though, “no” can mean a lot of different things, and you have to be able to interpret what it really means.
Sometimes “no” is simply a test by women—they want to see if you’re man enough not to be stopped by a simple no. Wusses and wimps fold the tent and go home when they hear no, because they’re just like the girly men in the media—and to them no means no.
If it’s a test, you simply ask the question a different way, or come back to it in a few minutes, always from the point of view of fun, playful humor. Some wusses get agitated when they hear the word no—the attractive man has no reaction to it at all, knowing he’s with a woman who demands a quality man.
Sometimes “no” simply means she’s under stress, had a bad day, or has a lot going on. Ask again at a better time, and you’ll get a better answer.
Sometimes “no” means, “get lost loser” and that’s OK too. You’ll know it when you get a no like this because afterwards she just won’t talk to you or take your calls. But that’s not a bad outcome either because it lets you know to quit wasting time on her, and move on to a woman more likely to say yes.
So, if you want to be a powerful and attractive man, you should develop the skill of interpreting what “no” really means. That way you’ll eventually get a lot more yeses.
On with the fun…
-John Alanis
“The King of Let ‘em Come to You”
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