What women hate, and most men do

Hey guys,

 

Do you want to know something that drives women crazy, something men think creates attraction?

 

Here it is:  “confessing your feelings” to a woman.  If you want a sure way to turn a woman off, just do that.  Works each and every time.

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Now, when I say “confessing your feelings,” I’m not talking about telling your wife or the woman you’re in a long term relationship how much you love and care for her.  That’s completely different.

 

What I’m talking about is, “confessing your feelings” to a woman you recently met, OR to a woman you’ve been friends with for some time.

 

For the past 30 or so years, the media has duped men into thinking that if they just “tell her how you feel,” that a woman will swoon, fall in love with you, and you’ll live happily ever after.

 

Happens in every “chick flick.”  Happens in every TV sitcom.  The fat, bumbling, dumpy guy confesses his heartfelt feelings to the incredibly hot woman he’s yearned for, and she falls for him. 

 

Makes for good TV, but lousy reality.  If you do this with a woman in the real world, you’re going to get the saying, “let’s just be friends.”

 

Lookit, women don’t want men “confessing” their feelings to them.  They want men who act like men, men who make them feel attraction, men who they have fun with.  Once you’ve spent some time with her, and the attraction is there, yes, then you should express your appreciation for her—but express it with authority and warmth, don’t sorrowfully confess it. 

 

So, if you want to make the women in world happy, start by putting an end to this “confessing your feelings” garbage.  Both of you will start getting the results you want.

 

On with the fun….

 

 

-John Alanis

“The King of Let ‘em Come to You”

 

 

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