Do NOT tolerate this

Hey guys,

 

In my life, there are many things I don’t tolerate.  Lateness.  Whining.  Refunding.  And most of all, flaking.

 

If you are a man who truly wants to make himself attractive to women,  you should not tolerate flaking in any way, shape or form.

 

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Flaking is when someone says they’re going to do something, and then they fail to do it.  If a woman says she’s going to meet—or call—you at a particular time and does not, then she flaked.

 

Now, some women will test men to see if they tolerate flaking.  And if he does, he fails.  Women don’t like men who are easily pushed around.

 

A man is tolerable of flaking if he tells her, “that’s OK, I’m sure you meant to be on time” or some other wishy-washy nonsense.  The only true way to deal with flaking is to calmly let her know her behavior is unacceptable, and if it happens again in the future, you’re done.

 

Then, if it does happen again, remove her from your life.  There is a tremendous power in being able to do this, because you prove to yourself there are some things you won’t put up with no matter how sexy she is.

 

When a woman knows you have no tolerance for flaking, she respects you.  Her friends respect you.  And other men around her respect you.

 

Way too many people put up with flakes, even though they don’t like them.  Many of these people are flakes themselves.  But when you’re a man who refuses to tolerate this, others respect you.

 

Now, there is a caveat:  you cannot be a flake yourself.  Ever.  If you say you’re going to do something, you’d better do it.  Otherwise people will think  you’re just another talker.  But if you do what you say you’re doing to do when you say you’re going to do it, every time with no excuses, you’ll have a tremendous amount of power and respect—as well as plenty of non-flakes in your life.

On with the fun….

 

-John Alanis

“The King of Let ‘em Come to You”

 

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