Eternal vigilance is the price for a lasting relationship

Hey Guys,

I make it my business to talk to lots of women, especially about
their relationships with men. And when I say talk, I mean they
talk and I listen. And by listening, I’ve learned a lot,
especially when I pick up on commonalities of behavior.

One thing I hear over and over from women fresh out of a
relationship is this: “As soon as we were married, he changed.
All of a sudden he was a completely different man from the man I
married.”

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It’s a weird biological fact, but it happens: when men and women
get into relationships, they have divergent expectations of what
should happen. The man thinks, “Great, I have her, she has me, now
I can dispense with this romantic stuff and act like I really want
to.”

The woman thinks, “Wow, if he was that great before we got married,
he’ll be ten times as good once we are.”

Then the man dispenses with all of his attractive behaviors and the
woman is shocked because she expected the opposite. They both
blame the other, and the relationship blows up, and the divorce
lawyers get rich.

There is, however, a way around this. If you know and understand
this phenomenon, you can interrupt and avoid it. All you have to
do is keep doing the things that created the attraction in the
first place, and she’ll be happy.

Furthermore, you have to be vigilant–self aware to the point that
you are actively on the lookout for attraction killing behaviors.
Most men are not vigilant because that requires work–but if you
are, and you pay attention to yourself and the woman in front of
you, you’ll have what few men have… a happy, healthy, lasting
relationship.

On with the fun…

-John Alanis
“The King of Let ‘em Come to You”

PS To discover even more attraction secrets, go to:

http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm

Copyright, Art Of Steel, Inc. MMIX

Hey Guys,

I make it my business to talk to lots of women, especially about
their relationships with men. And when I say talk, I mean they
talk and I listen. And by listening, I’ve learned a lot,
especially when I pick up on commonalities of behavior.

One thing I hear over and over from women fresh out of a
relationship is this: “As soon as we were married, he changed.
All of a sudden he was a completely different man from the man I
married.”

It’s a weird biological fact, but it happens: when men and women
get into relationships, they have divergent expectations of what
should happen. The man thinks, “Great, I have her, she has me, now
I can dispense with this romantic stuff and act like I really want
to.”

The woman thinks, “Wow, if he was that great before we got married,
he’ll be ten times as good once we are.”

Then the man dispenses with all of his attractive behaviors and the
woman is shocked because she expected the opposite. They both
blame the other, and the relationship blows up, and the divorce
lawyers get rich.

There is, however, a way around this. If you know and understand
this phenomenon, you can interrupt and avoid it. All you have to
do is keep doing the things that created the attraction in the
first place, and she’ll be happy.

On with the fun…

-John Alanis
“The King of Let ‘em Come to You”

PS To discover even more attraction secrets, go to:

http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm

Copyright, Art Of Steel, Inc. MMIX

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Eternal vigilance is the price for a lasting relationship

Hey Guys,

I make it my business to talk to lots of women, especially about their relationships with men. And when I say talk, I mean they talk and I listen. And by listening, I’ve learned a lot, especially when I pick up on commonalities of behavior.

One thing I hear over and over from women fresh out of a relationship is this: “As soon as we were married, he changed. All of a sudden he was a completely different man from the man I married.”

It’s a weird biological fact, but it happens: when men and women get into relationships, they have divergent expectations of what should happen. The man thinks, “Great, I have her, she has me, now I can dispense with this romantic stuff and act like I really want to.”

The woman thinks, “Wow, if he was that great before we got married, he’ll be ten times as good once we are.”

Then the man dispenses with all of his attractive behaviors and the woman is shocked because she expected the opposite. They both blame the other, and the relationship blows up, and the divorce lawyers get rich.

There is, however, a way around this. If you know and understand this phenomenon, you can interrupt and avoid it. All you have to do is keep doing the things that created the attraction in the first place, and she’ll be happy.

On with the fun…

-John Alanis “The King of Let ‘em Come to You”

PS To discover even more attraction secrets, go to:

http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm

Copyright, Art Of Steel, Inc. MMIX

Here's How You Can Get Five FREE "How Women Will Approach YOU First" Reports Right Now!

I make it my business to talk to lots of women, especially about
their relationships with men. And when I say talk, I mean they
talk and I listen. And by listening, I’ve learned a lot,
especially when I pick up on commonalities of behavior.

One thing I hear over and over from women fresh out of a
relationship is this: “As soon as we were married, he changed.
All of a sudden he was a completely different man from the man I
married.”

It’s a weird biological fact, but it happens: when men and women
get into relationships, they have divergent expectations of what
should happen. The man thinks, “Great, I have her, she has me, now
I can dispense with this romantic stuff and act like I really want
to.”

The woman thinks, “Wow, if he was that great before we got married,
he’ll be ten times as good once we are.”

Then the man dispenses with all of his attractive behaviors and the
woman is shocked because she expected the opposite. They both
blame the other, and the relationship blows up, and the divorce
lawyers get rich.

There is, however, a way around this. If you know and understand
this phenomenon, you can interrupt and avoid it. All you have to
do is keep doing the things that created the attraction in the
first place, and she’ll be happy.

-John Alanis
“The King of Let ‘em Come to You”