Fun at the office?
by admin on July 11, 2009
in Contact Me
Hey Guys,
With both men and women working side by side in the workplace, one of the questions I get often is, should you date in the workplace?
My answer to this question is below…
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What if everything you ever thought you knew about dating and relationships was just plain wrong? Would you keep doing the same things and getting the same results? Or would you try something new and radically different? To stop dating, and
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Jon–
Thank you very much for helping me out with this. I speak for a lot of guys when I say that you’re truly an inspiration to us all.
One question I have is one I do not think is covered in the Ultimate System which is why I’m asking it here.
What are your thoughts about playing in the office? A lot of it does depend on the environment. The one I am personally in has some husbands and wives working within the company at various levels (it’s not like it’s just an executive vice president and his wife works in the gift shop). There are managers and team leads married to each other. I’m in a position where it seems that I’m damned if I do and damned if I don’t.
Your thoughts? Thanks again.
Salmaan
Chicago
JA: Thanks for the email, Salmaan. There are a lot of dynamics that go into making the decision about whether or not to date women from work. My personal belief has always been to only date women outside of that environment, since once you learn the skill of attraction the whole world is open to you.
When something goes wrong outside of work, it happens in a vacuum. You split up, don’t see each other again, don’t see their friends or confidants, and there’s no basis for rumors. In an office environment, there are so many factors outside of your control, and so many jealous people it can make your life difficult. People who want to play in the office but don’t have the skill to will sabotage you, label you as a womanizer, etc. simply to bring you down to their level. It can only lead to bad things.
So, unless there is an extraordinary woman in that environment you think is worth the risk, I’d stay away from dating at work. Too many bad things can happen, and you can get the good without the bad outside of work.
On with the fun…
-John Alanis
“The King of Let ‘em Come to You”
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