The truth about call and confirm
by admin on July 17, 2009
in Contact Me
Hey guys,
Yesterday I sent you an episode regarding women who flake, and I got some very good questions. Several of them have to do with women who want you to “call and confirm” before they meet you.
Read the question below regarding this, and my answer. It’s a trap you never want to fall into.
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Hi John
I have just had a girl “Flake” on me this week.
She agreed to meet for a coffee per a meeting we both attend, I contact her to confirm pre time, then I got a pathetic excuse !
Sure she is under some pressure & stress at the moment, but there is no need for this kinda nonsense
She wants me to do work for her in the organization
She request I take a position, she wanted me to work
I agreed, then I get this nonsense
last week it was “Urgent” we get things set up, this week …no worries wit till next month !
I can be bothered with girls whom do this it, maybe a test, but she hit on me from the moment we meet has continued to so, but my financial situation is not the best ! but I am keen on her
What advice would you have ?
Thanks
Andy
JA: Thanks for the email, Andy. The first mistake you made was contacting her to confirm. Don’t ever do that—it’s an opportunity for her to flake. Also, guys who call and confirm come across as eager and desperate, and those are two things that kill attraction. Don’t ever call to confirm. You show up at the appointed time and place, with the expectation she does the same.
If she doesn’t show up, you simply tell her you have no tolerance for flaking and expect her to keep her commitments. Then give her one more chance to prove she made a mistake. If she’s not there, or flakes on you, forget about her. She’s abusing your time, time you could spend with another, better woman who doesn’t flake.
If she’s simply testing you, she’ll get the message and won’t flake. If she’s not, she’s either using you or is simply an out and out flake. Remove her from your life. You’ll soon attract a much better one who appreciates a man who tolerates no BS.
On with the fun….
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