When chaos is normal… run
by admin on July 21, 2009
in Contact Me
Hey Guys,
For those doers who have taken action and invested in my systems, you know one of the things I’m very big on is qualifying. Qualifying women, qualifying situations, qualifying realistic outcomes.
Why? Because when you qualify, you force yourself to say no to things that appear to be good—but on further examination reveal themselves to be long term trouble.
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What if everything you ever thought you knew about dating and relationships was just plain wrong? Would you keep doing the same things and getting the same results? Or would you try something new and radically different? To stop dating, and
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Not only that, when you avoid trouble, you have much more time to concentrate on adding assets to your life, not fighting fires.
One of the biggest mistakes men make when qualifying women is assuming that she thinks like you do—i.e. she likes a drama free, fun lifestyle.
And some women do think like this—in fact, most do. But there are some to whom the idea of “normality” is completely the opposite. To them, chaos and drama are the comfortable norms, and order is uncomfortable.
Think about this: if you run into drama and disorder, your first impulse is to end the drama, and restore order, i.e. set things back to normal.
But if a woman who thinks chaos is normal comes into a situation where’s there’s no drama and no chaos, what do you think she’ll do?
You got it: do her utmost to restore things to her view of “normal.” And that’s when things can get ugly. One person who likes order does not mix with one person who likes chaos. And two people who like chaos? Well, that’s where the really bad things can happen.
So, if you meet a woman who constantly creates drama and upsets order, you need to get rid of her immediately. If you try to bring “order” to her world, she’ll be forever trying to disrupt it because to her it’s not “normal.”
On with the fun…
-John Alanis
“The King of Let ‘em Come to You”
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