Are attraction killers biting you in the ass?

Hey guys,

 

One of my favorite sayings has always been this:  “One ‘aw shit’ equals 100 ‘atta boys’.” What that means is, you can do everything right, and just one thing wrong, and that one thing done wrong undoes all your good work.

 

Nowhere is this more true than in attraction.  You can do and say everything right, but make one mistake and it’s over.  Bad habits not handled can bite you in the ass time and time again—but they can be overcome.  I just received an excellent question from Brandon C. regarding this subject, and my answer is below.

 

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Hey John,

 

Let me tell you this is some really good stuff, i not only am talking to 4 hot girls they cant resist me. The naughty boy side and then being able to change back and be serious is what gets them every time.

 

Well here is my question, I understand everything that i have to do and what you say i need to do but it’s hard to break old habits. It is hard to apply your steps cause it doesn’t come naturally to me while i am constantly finding myself doing some of the attraction killers i hold back n i think that’s what is pulling them in. In your opinion should i be feeling this way and will the steps eventually come natural to me?

 

Thanks John

 

Brandon C.

Michigan

 

JA:  Thanks for the great email, Brandon, and congratulations on putting my “switching” technique to work.  This is one of the most powerful attraction techniques there is because it lets a woman know she’s talking to a man with a naughty boy side, not just a boy. 

 

Onto your question.  You are correct, it is hard to break old habits, and to be truthful, even I find myself occasionally falling back into them.  But, the more you work on them, the better you get, and the less and less you fall back into them.

 

Take a lesson from Ben Franklin on this one:  choose one attraction killing habit each day that’s holding you back, and focus on fixing that habit and that habit only.  Then pick another one the next day, and so forth.  Eventually, you’ll find these habits afflict you less and less and your results will get better and better—things will come naturally to you.  BUT, you will always have to work on them—that’s the price you pay for being an attractive man.

 

The good news is, few men will ever do this, and even modest progress on your part really stands out to women. 

 

On with the fun….

 

-John Alanis

“The King of Let ‘em Come to You”

 

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