What to say when you don’t know what to say to women

Hey guys,

One of the biggest hangups most guys have when it comes to

attracting women is they don’t know what to say to them. Now, I

can sit here and tell you all day long that it really doesn’t

matter, but until you’ve developed the skill of talking to women,

you’re not going to believe me.

Listen, I know how it feels to feel awkward and tongue tied around

women, knowing you should say something, but having no clue what to

say.

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However, there is a solution. While I’m not a fan of cheesy pickup

lines (unless you can deliver them in such an overblown, playful

manner she knows you’re teasing her), I am a fan of having one or

two memorized openers when you can’t think of anything else.

Now, before you use those, you really want to see what kind of

spontaneous, semi-sarcastic, semi-funny comment comes to mind.

Like anything else, this is a skill, and the more you work at it,

the better you’ll get at having the right thing to say pop into

your mind at the right time.

That being said, sometimes nothing comes to mind, and that’s when a

memorized opener is a good fallback.

While you want to come up with a few that work for you, my personal

favorite is this one: whenever I see an attractive woman, I look

her right in the eye and smile my famous naughty boy smile,

transmitting the intent of attraction.

When she smiles back, I simply say to her, “well what are YOU

smiling about?” and we’re into the conversation.

Works pretty darn good, and you can use it for yourself. However,

I recommend coming up with a few that feel right to you–when it

comes to attraction, there’s nothing like having your own unique

style.

On with the fun…

 

-John Alanis

“The King of Let ‘em Come to You”

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