Hey Guys,
When many men get rejected, stood up, flaked on, or blown off by a woman, it really gets to them.
They start to question themselves, wonder what they did wrong, and focus on the fact that one woman just wasn’t interested in them.
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Rejection absolutely destroys them, inhibiting them from talking to women, or doing other things that may lead to rejection.
I’ll tell you something interesting, though: the guys who are the most successful with women are also the most rejected. Why? Because the only thing rejection means to them is that it’s time to look elsewhere.
These guys have made friends with rejection because they realize a definite “no” is much better than an unending maybe. They also recognize that any “rejection” is simply one woman’s opinion, and has no bearing on how other women see them.
Does that mean they actually like rejection? No, of course not. No one does. What it does mean, however, is that they are able to function and keep taking action when they are rejected.
This is one of the primary success skills you should develop- the ability to function under negative emotion. What you discover is, the more action you take, the less intense the feeling, and the faster it disappears.
Rejection is a stern taskmaster—but it can be your friend if you recognize it for what it is: a signal to spend your time on another opportunity more likely to pay off.
On with the fun…
-John Alanis
“The King of Let ‘em Come to You”
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