Subtle changes, big results

Hey Guys,

 

One of the greatest fears men have when they discover attraction is a learnable skill is that they may have to change “who they are.” 

 

However, this fear is a myth, perpetuated by those who want to sell ridiculous ideas and systems, men who couldn’t attract a woman if their life depended on it.  Read the question from a reader below, and my answer—he’s getting great results just being himself.

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What if everything you ever thought you knew about dating and relationships was just plain wrong?  Would you keep doing the same things and getting the same results?  Or would you try something new and radically different?  To stop dating, and

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Hey John,

 

I really do believe your material is good.  I am a quiet guy, but not uninteresting.  Intelligence comes pretty easy for me and I have lots of things to do every day.  Putting your advice into action has created results very quickly.  Just by displaying a strong personal authority and having fun, women that usually ignored me wanted to have a conversation.  I’m still working out all the kinks (i.e. too playful *woops*), but i’m glad I can be my true self around women without them becoming bored or uninterested.  

 

Thanks for sharing this!

 

KS      

JA:  Thanks for the email–  you bring up a very good point, a point many guys are worried about.  You see, when most guys first discover attraction is a learnable skill, they worry they somehow have to change who they are.  As  you’ve found out, this isn’t true in the least—you just have to modify your behavior a bit, amplifying your existing attractive qualities, while suppressing your unattractive ones.

 

Is this a learning process?  Sure—and you’ll get better as you go a long, getting a feel for attraction.  But as you’ve discovered, just making a few subtle changes pays big dividends… and you can still be yourself, a quiet yet interesting guy who’s attractive to women.

 

On with the fun…

 

 

-John Alanis

“The King of Let ‘em Come to You”

 

PS To discover even more attraction secrets, go to:

 

http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm

 

 

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