A powerful (but little used) attraction skill
by admin on February 7, 2010
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Hey Guys,
One of the most powerful—and least used—attraction techniques is to be a good story teller. Women love men who can tell a good story, and make them laugh, even when they shouldn’t.
But most men aren’t good story tellers, even when it’s a learnable skill. What do they do wrong?
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Simply this: they leave out details. You see, details engage the mind, and focus it on what you’re saying. Then, the woman you’re telling the story to can actually “see” herself being there.
For example, I used to tell a story about a goofus trapped in the body of a male model named Bob Long. If I just said he was a good looking guy, or a handsome guy that really doesn’t do much.
But if I say, “Bob was self described as having been blessed by God in the looks department. He often said God gave him a chest, a chin, and a butt. My reply was always, ‘too bad he forgot the brains’.”
What’s the difference in the mental images that come to your mind when you read the above statements back to back? They’re vastly different, and one is much more detailed than the other.
Not only that, in the second description I use colorful, “story telling language”—you get the idea there’s more to come, and you want to know more about Bob and his obvious misadventures.
Story telling is a very powerful attraction technique. Women love men who can make them laugh on a constant and consistent basis, and very few men can. Story telling is also a great vehicle for introducing sexual innuendo and getting women to think such thoughts and link them to you.
Also, it’s a hell of a lot of fun. When you get good at telling stories, not only does your audience laugh, you laugh too. All of a sudden attraction becomes a lot of fun, and it becomes a lot easier.
Make it a point to master story-telling… it will give you an unfair advantage over other men.
On with the fun…
-John Alanis
“The King of Let ‘em Come to You”
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