Kill your inner nice guy… before it’s too late

Hey Guys,

 

I received a question from a man in Florida, wondering why he can’t get results with women.  He suspects it is because of his nice guy behaviors.

 

He suspects right.  Read his email below, and my response regarding what he should do now.

 

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Hello John,

 

I realize that you are a busy guy, and I don’t have a good idea for how to choose the men to teach. I really think it should be in a seminar environment maybe a web seminar that you could teach live streaming over a week or so. That way you can really get a good verity from around the country, and it would not cost as much with the savings on food and lodging.

 

You see I’m unemployed here in Florida and I know that is hindering me at the moment but it is more of my being a nice guy that is keeping me form getting the women I am looking for. You see I have been told from countless women that I am attractive. but alas’s the nice guy gets in the way.

 

I met this beautiful young lady at my friends bday part we danced partied, held hands, watched movies at my friends house. But she told me she was extremely busy. I never bugged her over the phone I called or text once a week and let her responded and I all ways fallowed a great time together with an email.

 

I decided to get her something not to serious for V day I sent her a message a few days ago about meeting and she has not responded….do I nothing and let it go or do I try to message her and tell say to her if she does not have the time then I shouldn’t waste mine?

 

 

Sincerely,

Chris O.

JA:  Thanks for the email, Chris.  First off, there’s nothing wrong with being unemployed, but everything wrong with staying that way.  Getting employed is very simple:  prove to a business how you’ll make or save them substantially more than they’ll pay you and you’ll have more offers than you know what to do with.

 

Few people get this—especially the girlie men in the media.  It is, after all, being judged by results and most people shy away from that—real men welcome it.

 

As far as your second problem, I had a look at your picture, and you’d better find a way to kill your inner nice guy dead.  I sent it to a female friend of mine and she said you were “devastatingly handsome.”  What that means is, women expect you to behave in an attractive manner, and if you don’t, you’re done.

Start working on being inaccessible, unavailable, naughty, funny, playful, and above all get rid of the nice guy behaviors.  Those are an instant turn off- especially for a nice guy.

 

On with the fun…

 

 

-John Alanis

“The King of Let ‘em Come to You”

 

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