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by admin on March 9, 2010
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Hey Guys,
Seems more and more guys these days are born without a sense of humor. Poke ‘em a bit, or bust their balls and they start whining and peeing like little babies.
Yet, that’s one of the most important elements of attraction—a sense of humor coupled with a strong self image.
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Women walk on eggshells around “men” in this day and age because they’re afraid if they say something that can be perceived as demeaning or “disrespectful,” he’ll throw a tantrum and sulk for days.
If you want to make yourself instantly more attractive to women, then just laugh at yourself. No matter what she says, just let it roll off your back and laugh about it.
Few men these days do that, and yet when you do it’s incredibly attractive. Why? Because she feels like she can trust you not to overreact to things, and she knows she can trust you with her emotions.
When a woman feels she can trust you with her emotional safety, she’ll open up to you in ways she’ll never open up to other men. You see, women want to open up to a man, but they do not want to be hurt or wounded.
When you’re a man women can open up to, all of a sudden you become something very rare. Now, I’m not talking about being a nice guy and a therapist for her to dump her problems on—I’m talking about being a guy she share anything with knowing you won’t judge her, demean her, or attack her.
That’s why having a sense of humor is so important. If she feels confident anything she says to you will be met with something good in return, she’ll bond with you.
If she’s not confident in that, she won’t trust you, and will hide things from you… and that’s the beginning of the end.
A sense of humor is like anything else—it’s a skill that can be developed. Make it your business to develop one, and you’ll be amazed at the women you attract and keep.
On with the fun…
-John Alanis
“The King of Let ‘em Come to You”
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