How to attract women (if you’re quiet and shy)

Hey Guys,

 

I got a very good question from a man today, wondering how to attract women if you’re a quiet guy.

 

I actually used to be a quiet guy myself, and you’d be shocked how well quiet guys can attract women, if you know what to do.  Read the below question and my answer to discover just what to do if you’re a quiet guy.

 

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What if your a quiet guy? How do I make a good first impression? I have difficulty carrying on a conversation. How can I keep her interested?

 

-Francis

 

JA:  Thanks for the email, Francis.  This is a really good question, and it might surprise you to know that I was a “quiet guy” for many years.  The easiest thing to do in this situation is to ask her questions about things she’s passionate about and throw in a sarcastic/witty comment occasionally.

 

Also, you can use facial expressions to “comment” on things she says, that can be just as powerful as talking.  If you come across as mysterious and intriguing, she’ll look to  you as a challenge, to see if she can get you to open up.  Let her open you up—but do it slowly, and make her work for it.  At the end, she’ll appreciate the quiet guy.

 

 

On with the fun…

 

 

-John Alanis

“The King of Let ‘em Come to You”

 

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