The hard and the soft…

by admin on March 16, 2010

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Hey Guys,

 

I just got back into town from my friend Yanik Silver’s Underground 6 Internet Marketing Event, and all I can say is, it reminded me of my college days. 

 

I was only gone 4 days, but it seems like an eternity—so much stuff happened at the event, and because of the event.

 

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One of the most interesting things was this:  8 miles away from where the event was held is an MMA (Mixed Martial Arts) studio run by a friend of mine who is a martial arts master, internet marketer, and real estate investor all at the same time.

 

We hung out and talked internet marketing, then he invited me up to watch his Jiu-Jitsu students train.  I couldn’t stay to watch the entire workout, but this is not for the soft or the faint of heart—you’d better be in damn good condition to make it through this workout, or you’ll collapse.

 

What I noticed about his students immediately was this:  they all had hard, manly facial features, hard chins, and an intensity about them only those who train rigorously to excel under duress have.

 

They have “the look” that drives women wild.

 

Later on that week, a friend of mine and I went to a party in a hotel room with 41 guys and no women.  We stayed long enough to grab a drink since the bars had closed, then we got out of there as fast as we could.

 

What I noticed immediately about most of the guys in the room was they had soft, feminine facial features, sunken chins (sometimes two or three) and weak energy.  In other words, they looked like just about every guy shuffling around and listening to alternative music today. 

 

That’s probably why there were no women in that room… they just don’t respond to that look and that energy.

 

So, while you don’t have to be an MMA fighter or Jiu-Jitsu master to attract women (I’m neither of those), if you train in venues to excel under duress (athletics, team sports, combat sports, business, military, etc.) you’ll develop the “look” women crave. 

 

The good news is, being hard or soft is a choice—most men choose soft.  If you choose hard, you’ll immediately gain an advantage over the soft in every aspect of life.  Yes, there’s a price to pay, but it’s worth it—that’s why women say, “a hard man is good to find.”

 

On with the fun…

 

 

-John Alanis

“The King of Let ‘em Come to You”

 

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