Hey Guys—
I received a rather interesting email from a man today, wondering if he could be attractive because he doesn’t like the kind of music women his age do.
If you’ve been on my list awhile, you know the answer to that question… but keep reading below, and you’ll get my surprising take on it.
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My name is Cory and I am 25. Most good looking girls my age listen to rap and hip hop. I myself do not listen to that music. How am I supposed to still be attractive when I don’t know any of that music and I don’t like it. I feel like I come off as being kinda out of place with this.
Thanks
Cory
JA: Thanks for the email, Cory. I’ll tell you a big secret: I don’t listen to rap or hip hop either. I don’t listen to today’s whiney alternative garbage. I don’t listen to country. I listen to loud, heavy metal music from the 80’s that is sadly long out of the consciousness of most women. And you know what? None of it matters.
What matters is your ability to make a woman feel the elusive feeling of chemistry they all crave. That’s it. That feeling comes from how you interact with them, and part of that interaction is you taking the lead. The attitude that you should exude is, “wherever we are is the place to be.” Forget external validation from other sources—that’s for posers and wanna be’s, not real men. When you can make a woman feel chemistry, suddenly she worries about being out of place because she doesn’t know your music, as well as a myriad of other things.
Attraction is all about making women feel chemistry—do that, and nothing else matters.
On with the fun,
-John Alanis
“The King of Let ‘em Come to You”
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It’s so cool you’ll want to pass it around and leave your own witty saying—see if you can top mine!
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