Normal and customary

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The ONE BEST TRAIT:
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Hey Guys,

One of the big reasons men fail at attraction is because deep down, they don’t believe they’re attractive.

If an attractive woman talks to them, smiles at them, or makes eye contact with them, they either shy away or presume she’s looking at someone else.

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To them, women not being attracted to them is normal and customary. When a woman does give an indication of interest, it either fills them with doubt, makes them nervous, or they simply think she’s flirting with someone else.

It becomes a self fulfilling prophecy. She picks up on the doubt and nervousness, then starts to wonder if there’s something wrong with her because he’s not responding to her overtures.

She walks away, and yet again his belief set is reinforced, and he goes on believing he’s an unattractive guy.

For many years I dealt with this issue until I finally decided to just do the opposite. I decided to adopt the belief set that it was normal and customary for a woman to be attracted to me and to flirt with me, and that I would simply deal with all women coming from that mindset.

Wow, what a difference it made. Instead of looking away when a woman smiled at me, I smiled back and looked her in the eye with my famous naughty boy smile.

Instead of acting like a dead fish around her, I initiated touch. When she talked to me, I started teasing her back, and most importantly I started to have a good time just talking to women.

I started to have a lot of success, and guess what? That reinforced my belief set that I was, indeed, an attractive man and that created a self fulfilling prophecy.

I expected women to be attracted to me, and when they were in my presence, they felt confidence instead of doubt, and sexual energy instead of awkwardness.

This all happened because of a change in belief about myself. It is amazing how powerful this is. Adopt the belief that it is normal and customary for women to feel attraction in your presence, and you will become instantly more successful.

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The ONE BEST TRAIT:
What is the ONE biggest and BEST trait a man can possibly possess when it comes to being attractive to women? Watch this free video to find out:
http://www.johnalanis.com/one-secret.htm
Warning: I’m only leaving this online for a short time- watch now!
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On with the fun…

-John Alanis
“The King of Let ‘em Come to You”

PS It’s the one big secret to attraction:

http://www.johnalanis.com/authority.htm

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