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July 21, 2005
A "reformed nice guy" speaks out
Hey guys...
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On with today's lesson. I received the following email from a "life long nice guy" who just got his hands on my materials, and is reforming himself nicely. There's a lot to learn, so read carefully:
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John,
I've been meaning to write you for sometime. I purchased your Platinum Package a few months back. I really needed it. If you look-up "nice guy" in the dictionary, there's a picture of me. The things that you say, not do to create attraction, are exactly the things that I did to try and create attraction. I've always listened to women and what they say they want.
They always told me that they wish they could meet a really nice guy. Then complain about the last jerk that treated them like dirt. When I'm with a woman that I like, I normally have the backbone of a single celled organism. I always bent to their every wish, and showered them with gifts and compliments. I've always been told that I'm a really nice guy.
The ones that hurt the most were from girls that were single themselves and showed no sign of interest. I've always had terrible luck with the ladies. So I just figured I was ugly, up to a few years ago. Now I know better, people say I look like Matt Damon.
I've kinda always known what to do. Some of my guys friends even told me to do some of the things you suggested. After reading through part of the package, it hit me. I've always observed what really works, but never put it to work. So I decided try some of your ideas.
Now for a success story.
I was at a country music festival. I really didn't start out really well. I noticed a cute girl notic'n me. On my way back from buying the next round, I tried to sneak into a picture with her that her friend was taking. But her friend wouldn't take the picture. So I went back a little later with my camera and said "I may not be good enough for your camera, but your good enough for mine!" I know that's a terrible line, and you can use that for your bad lines email. But she took a picture with me.
After a few more songs I went and asked her to dance. At first she wouldn't, but I was persistant. So I "LEAD" her out on the floor. After the concert I went back to her friends campsite. During the conversations, I tried to keep them on subject that she enjoyed. In fact she got off on a subject that brought-up bad feelings, so I hanged the subject. Her friends were all passing out so I "LEAD" her over to my campsite.
Every so often I would lean in real close to her to make contact with her shoulder. To slowly increase the amount of touching.
Then a friend of mine started talking to her, and telling jokes.
She started getting into the conversation, so I reached over and started holding her hand. Somehow we ended-up standing next to the lake and talking. This then lead to a making-out on the bank.
After it started getting steamy, my nice guy took over. I couldn't "close the deal". And I know that if I would have moved in that direction it would have happened. She needed to leave or her car would have gotten towed. As we were walking to her car she was making fun of me for something. So I told her that if that's the way she's going to act, then she's not getting my number!
She reacted well, so I did give her my number, but never asked for hers. A week went by, and no call. So I thought I would give fate a nudge. I own a small internet based private franchising business. After one of my meeting I went to the diner she said she worked at with my mentor. We of coarse had power business suites on. She ended-up being our waitress.
So when when I paid my bill, I gave her a sly look and said, still got my number? She said yes. Up to this point I hadn't acknowledged that I knew her. 1 hr later on her break she text message me her phone number. We've talked twice, and if she doesn't have to work we are getting together this Sunday.
So I have a question for you. You normally say to just meet for coffee on a first meeting. We've really already met, and created passion. I was thinking maybe going out to eat, then something fun and exciting, and see were the evening goes. What do you think?
Thanks,
Joe
JA: Joe, great to hear from you- congratulations in investing in my material and taking action with it. I'll get to your question in a moment, but I want to point out a few things you did right with this women. First off, even though she "resisted" you were persistent and paid no attention to her "test"--and you passed.
Secondly, you did what few men do--you took charge and lead. When you did this, any resistance she had vanished because she FINALLY met a guy who would do what all women dream about--show some authority.
When you felt it start to drift away, you took charge, and got it back in course--good for you. Don't feel too bad about not "closing the deal"--in this case it can sometimes backfire because you did it in hours, and sometimes after the moment is over, women will put you in the category of a fling... fun in the moment, but that's it.
Good job on taking charge and going to see her--if she called you, she's very interested, no doubt. Where should you take her? Where ever the heck YOU please. Just be sure to keep LEADING so she will keep following. I like coffee when I haven't spend much time with a woman yet, but if you've already made out with her, she's attracted. The key here is to never stop leading--that's what she's attracted to, and as long as you do that she'll be attracted. The instant the old nice guy comes out, though, you're done.
Thanks for the story, Joe, and congratulations on your success.
On with the fun...
-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"
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