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November 20, 2005
How to make sure anything you say creates attraction
Dear {Friend and Subscriber},
Today I'm going to reveal one of the biggest secrets I've ever learned for creating attraction on demand. It's something any man can easily do, just about anywhere he goes.
Before I reveal this secret, it's important you understand a truism about attraction: it's not WHAT you say, it's the intent, energy, tonality and non-verbal communication you say it with, coupled with your internal emotional state.
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OK, here we go. What I am going to teach you is actually an exercise I do every day, and exercise that increases your ability to create attraction on demand via quantum leaps.
Whenever I go to the grocery store, or to any other place that forces a "canned interaction" with women, I employ this technique. Now, when I say canned interaction, what I mean is, the situation forces her to say the same thing to me every single time, giving me a choice of how to respond. For example, whenever I go to the grocery store, the checkout girl always asks, "Would you like paper or plastic?"
Here's the secret: I always respond to the "canned question" with the exact same words, but with varying tonality, energy, and intent. My goal is to get her to laugh, and return the attractive look I just gave her.
So, when I'm asked "paper or plastic" I'll say, "Well, I'll take... plastic... please..." In and of itself that statement is completely neutral. However, when you vary your tonality, energy and facial expressions, you get amazingly different results. Sometimes I'll say it in a boring manner and get a boring response.
Sometimes I'll say it in a jokey manner and get a pleasant laugh. But mostly I'll say it in an attractive manner, and get a blush and an attractive laugh in return. The words I say are the same, but the results vary widely. Whenever I say them in an attractive manner, I always have the option to continue the interaction outside of the establishment.
What's so powerful about this exercise? It lets you figure out what your internal emotional state, your facial gestures, and your tonality should be when you're talking with a woman you want to attract. Once you're able to create attraction by saying the same neutral phrase a different way, you can start to vary the words, but employ the non verbal communication you find works best.
I love doing this exercise with clerks and checkout girls where I only have a minute or two to create attraction. It forces me to think and act quickly to the point where it becomes automatic and subconscious. There are no interfering fears of rejection, worry, or doubt because I know exactly what she's going to say to me. That way I can isolate the perfect emotional internal state that creates attraction, and employ it wherever I go, with any woman I choose.
Go out today and put this exercise to work for you. Find a canned interaction, and start testing different emotional states, expressions, tonality, etc. Find your own perfect attractive state, and put it to work for you. After you master this exercise you'll be amazed at how you simply create attraction on demand, just like riding a bike, or driving a car.
Oh yeah, don't forget to tell me your results--best success story wins my "How to Be the Naughty Boy Women Love" report (part of my Secrets of Natural Attraction product, see http://www.effortlesscommunication.com/enter.htm )
On with the fun....
-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"
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