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November 06, 2005
If this surprises you, you're in big trouble
Hey guys,
A get a lot of correspondence from guys that goes something like this: "I met this woman, we hit it off so I asked her out- and I was surprised when she said yes!"
What usually follows this is a story about the woman flaking, or a question as to why there wasn't a second meeting after the first one.
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Here's why this happens: because you were "surprised she said yes," you doubt your ability to create attraction with her. You believe you're going to fail. And when you believe you're going to fail you will.
This applies doubly so to creating attraction with women. Why? Because women instantly pick up on what you're feeling inside. If you're feeling naughty, playful, and confident, she feels that and it creates attraction. But if it shifts to doubt, even for a second, she picks up on it, and you're done--the attraction is gone, which leads to flaking and failure.
Women don't consciously do this. They make decisions on what they're feeling inside, and act according to that feeling. If you want her to spend time with you, you need to make her feel attraction based on your own emotional state.
The same thing applies when you start thinking, "I wonder if she likes me..." Again, that's self doubt and it kills attraction before it ever has a chance.
You need to develop the expectation, the belief that women are attracted to you. If you give her the opportunity to spend time with you, you must expect her to seize that opportunity. She'll pick up on this belief, translate it to confidence, and feel attraction for you.
The only time you should be surprised is if a woman doesn't accept the opportunity to spend more time with you. But, don't worry, it doesn't mean you doubted yourself if this happens, all it means is she had bad taste--and who wants to spend time with a woman who has bad taste, anyways?
What you expect to happen, will happen. So, expect success!
On with the fun--
-John Alanis
The King of Let 'em Come to You
PS When you're competent in your chosen field, you will always expect success. To become competent in every area with women, go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now before this website is removed.
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