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Austin, TX
-Robert O., Marketing Consultant
Toronto, Canada
I had purchased your E-book a couple of months ago, and let me tell you, it's truly a God-send! What I love about your instructions is they are very open-ended in how one can implement your techniques. One doesn't have to worry about "Oh shit, am I doing what such and such page instructed me to do correctly?!" - it beautifully managed to conjure up a bigger, practical "what to do" picture by the time I was finished reading it that, frankly, I doubt few other e-books on the matter will be able to pull off in their readers' minds. Needless to say, my results with women have been pretty amazing! The "smile your way through" technique alone is incredibly effective. Definitely smacks of the good ol' "small hinges turn big doors" maxim, and does so beautifully! It amazing how it's small things like this most of us men take for granted, instead trying desperately to put up some fake Al Pacinoesque or Johnny Depp look to attract women (and for the record, two gorgeous ladies I know of like neither of these actors :)! Most importantly, what I REALLY appreciate about your ebook is that the methods you implement can cater for men coming from ALL backgrounds - whether they are your average "free spirited" schmoe in the street, or even religious, spiritually inclined types such as myself. You may find this funny, but to be perfectly honest, before purchasing your product, I went through some trepidation before buying it, thinking it was wholly based on "best ways to flirt with women" in bars and so on - a practice that's strongly shunned by the culture I was brought up in. But upon finishing your book, I realized there are some fundamental truths about male / female dynamics that NO one in their right state of mind can deny... and us "religious" freaks have this thing for "truism" :) haha Once again, thank you very much for this awesome e-book. Two more semesters, and I'll be done with college - so, no more tuition fees! Which means you'll be looking forward to having at least ONE person purchase your Deluxe offer from my neck of the woods ;)"
Sincerely,
Arman
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November 16, 2005
Q and A with the King
Hey guys,
Looks like my mailbag is filled to the brim with your questions, so today I'm going to take a bit of time to answer the best ones.
Obviously I can't read or reply to all of them (I get literally hundreds a day) so I try my dangdest to respond to the best and the most relevant.
So, keep sending your questions in--who knows, the one I answer may just be yours! Here we go...
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John:
I have read your ezine consistently for months now. But have not acted on it. Why? I'm married. However for compelling , personal reasons it is likely that I will get divorced next year. Will ideas in your course help with reducing animosity with my wife? Will the course then help me not repeat my errors in judgment while I'm having a hell of a lot of fun?
(Please withhold my name)
JA: Thanks for the email--your name is withheld. Yes, what I teach in my system will help you reduce the animosity with your wife, maybe even save your relationship IF you take action and apply them. However, I do want to address what I would consider an inherent flaw in your question, something that is probably contributing to the issues with your wife.
What you asked was, "will the COURSE help me..." instead of "when I take action and implement what's in your course..." Any course, system, or piece of information in and of itself cannot help you unless and until you take personal responsibility for making what you're learned work for you. Every time I get a refund from a refunder (all of whom are instantly banned from ever doing business with me again), the language I hear over and over is "IT didn't work for me." Whenever I hear a success story from a doer, the language I hear is, "I got your system, John, took action with it, and here are the results I got..."
The difference in language is crucial--one is about the world controlling you (i.e. your results are predicated on outside forces and influences "beyond your control), the other is about you creating your own reality, realizing everything that happens to you is YOUR fault. (If it's your fault, that means you control your own outcomes, if it's not, someone else controls them).
I have several guys on my list who got my system with the full intent of leaving their wife for a better woman--but when they took action (and responsibility for their own outcomes), they turned their relationships around and discovered a new woman in their wife. So, if you adopt the mindset that all outcomes are your fault, invest in my system and take responsibility for getting results with it, you'll get what you want. (Go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm for details).
John,
You have addressed this in your materials. But I want to reiterate how important it is to eliminate negative things from your life and environment. I'm saying this because I am in the process of eliminating the negative from my environment. But it has been a long road. I feel that it is important for men to realize this. A man can develop the skills necessary to bring quality women into his life, however the women will undoubtedly pick up on anything negative in your life. They can sense something isn't 100% with you without ever seeing it. I know because it has happened to me. You can define authority and control your interactions, but if somewhere else in your life something is screwed up they'll detect it and your done. They may not know what it is, but they sense it and your toast. If you hate your job, don't like where you live, or don't like the car you drive, etc. it will show through without you knowing it.
But if you're successful and have the correct mind set and think like a Winner and not a Wussy Boy Loser you will figure it out and correct it. I am personally eliminating negatives from my life. I'm about to start a new and better job with more opportunity and respect and I will soon move from my old apartment into a better apartment and completely refurnish it. As soon as I made those decisions my success with women has increased. I can only imagine how successful I will be with women once I have completed my transformation!
It is vitally important for Do'er's to remember that if they have something negative in their life that they need to eliminate it and replace it with something positive. Because if it brings you down the women in your life WILL SENSE IT!!!
Will R.
JA: Good to hear from you again, Will. Thanks for the great email, I couldn't have said it better myself. Everything you say is 100% true (maybe 110%)--women have a radar that picks up the tiniest bit of doubt, and instant attraction killer. When they sense it, they're gone, when they sense the absence of it, they'll stay as long as you allow.
Hi John,
You're being cheap in the right places sounds like the Patriots. Here in Boston we have seen the success they have had. Although this year has been real real hard to take. The Pats don't sign anyone player (except Tom Brady) to big money, like the Eagles with Owens. Instead of investing $25 million in one guy, they'll spend $5 million on 5 guys. This way if you get a jerk like Owens or he gets hurt you have 4 other guys behind him. To me it serves the Eagles right !!
Fred
JA: It's a great analogy, Fred. The Pats are cheap in the right places, but they will step up and sign the truly valuable guys (Tom Brady, Richard Seymour.) Also, they will trade draft picks for players who can help them, such as Corey Dillon. They don't win the Superbowl last year without him, but the Pats stepped up and signed him.
The Iggles had an opportunity to do the same thing with Shaun Alexander, and they could have signed Plaxico Burress (both who are having career years), but they were too damn cheap to do it. Fat Andy is a moron (especially after running off Corey Simon, leaving the Eagles without an interior pass rush, the biggest problem on defense according to Jim Johnson). And all you Iggles fans who want to email me with Fat Andy's "winning percentage" be sure to calculate his Super Bowl winning percentage before you do so. Perhaps getting there is enough for them, perhaps what they really care about is setting the record for most salary cap bowl titles, but they are not concerned with winning Super Bowls in any way, shape or form. They simply will not spend the money to bring in any good players, nor will they adopt their "pass 70% of the time" philosophy to what wins Super Bowls--a balanced attack centered around a power running game (or the creation of one like the Patriots did in 2001 with Antwain Smith).
Thanks for the questions, guys, we'll do it again soon...
On with the fun....
-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"
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