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November 05, 2005
Why it's up to you to take "fast action"... fast!
Dear {Friend and Subscriber}...
Do you want to know how to really frustrate a woman who's attracted to you, even drive her away? It's a good idea to know this because most guys do it, not even aware they're doing it, and then are mystified when she doesn't want to spend time with them anymore
Here it is: hold back from doing anything physical with her (touching, holding hands, or kissing) because you aren't sure if she likes you are not. This drives a woman crazy because most won't initiate physical contact with a guy (although you've gotta love the rare exception), and she has to wait until he finally screws up the courage to do what she's silently begging him to do all along. For some guys this can take weeks, even months, leaving the woman they're attracted to frustrated, even pissed off.
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A lot of men are afraid to initiate contact because they "aren't sure" if she likes them or not. In turn, the woman begins to wonder if he's really attracted to her because he won't initiate contact. What you wind up with is two people who are really attracted to each other, but frustrated because each "isn't sure."
The solution to this is actually pretty easy, and once you do it one or two times you'll understand how much a woman who is really attracted to you wants her to touch you. In fact, touch itself can create and enhance attraction.
Whenever you meet a woman you're attracted to, you need to begin touching her from the very beginning in a non-threatening way that lets her know the interaction IS about attraction, and not about "platonic friends." That's the difference between a man who's "good with women" and the "nice guy." The man who's good with women instantly makes the interaction about attraction, the nice guy ("wuss") waits around wondering if she "likes him."
When I meet a woman I smile my naughty boy smile, look her in the eye, and when I shake her hand, I hold onto it. When we sit down to talk I lightly touch her wrist, then if she responds positively to that I touch her shoulder when she laughs. Then I simply take her hand and hold it.
I can't remember a time when I've had a woman pull away--in fact the reaction on her part is usually one of relief because she instantly knows I'm not a "nice guy" who's going to make her wait weeks before I touch her. She instantly puts me in a category of a "man who knows women," and views me through the lens of attraction.
I lead, and she follows, thankful I'm not going to frustrate her, and that I'm going to gently, yet firmly lead the attraction. I won't pressure her, and if she pulls back from an intimate touch, I pull back just a bit, then move gently forward so she can "surrender" to it, knowing she's with a strong man.
I never worry about whether or not she "likes me"--that mindset is for wusses. Instead I presume she likes me, and take the attitude that she's the one who should be concerned about whether or not I like her. She can instantly pick up on the fact I'm not at all worried if she's attracted to me or not, and that attitude is very comforting to her. She knows I won't be nervous or awkward, but instead will be confident and firm.
As long as she's engaged with me, she's interested. Even if she pushes me away, we both know it's just a test to see how I react. So, I pull away briefly, then gradually ramp back up to what we were just doing... and this time where there was pushing away, there's pulling towards, attraction where she's used to experiencing frustration with guys.
So, if there's a woman who likes to spend time with you, and you wonder if she likes you or not, stop wondering and start taking action... she'll like you for sure then.
On with the fun....
-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"
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