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Toronto, Canada
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December 29, 2005
An unusual question from a woman
Hey guys,
Recently I received a question from a woman on the list, one which actually applies to everyone, man or woman.
Here it is:
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John-
As a woman seeking an Alpha Male, I wonder how best to find such a guy who is looking for a longer term relationship? I try to meet dominant men, but it seems like the guys who chase me (relentlessly I might add) are all lacking the charismatic masculine energy I love. Alpha Males (who are not jerks) are the rarest of the rare - and so hard to come by - that it makes dating seem to be hopeless! I have always known Alpha Males are the ones for me but I don't know how to find any!
T.A.
JA: Thanks for the email--the "charismatic masculine energy" you describe is really what I'm trying to teach the guys on this list how to manifest. It really is a combination of a cocky/naughty attitude backed up competence/confidence and a strong self image.
You are also correct--men who have this energy are not jerks, the difference being a strong self image. Jerks, while they can create attraction in the moment, actually have a low self image, which eventually kills attraction.
On to your question. In this day and age of the wuss, it is increasingly difficult for women to find the type of man you speak of, no doubt. However, the way to find them is to hang out where they are. Here's what to do: sit down, and write out all the characteristics of your ideal man on paper. Then ask yourself this question: "where does my ideal man hang out? Where does he NOT hang out?" Make a list of places.
What you're going to find is this: you've probably been looking in the wrong places. What you need to do is determine the right places, then spend your time there in addition to avoiding the wrong places. If, for example, you spend your time hanging out in bars, you'll meet a lot of talkers and jerks, but not too many real alpha males. If, however, you make it a point to attend seminars that teach money-making skills (i.e. real estate investing, direct response marketing), you'll meet a few men there AND you won't have much female competition.
It's all about putting yourself in the position to succeed--then acting on it when opportunity comes your way.
On with the fun....
-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"
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