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December 13, 2005
Attitudes and attraction
Hey guys,
Many years ago, before I discovered attraction was predictable and formulaic, I used to spend a lot of time asking myself questions about women I was interested in. Now these were not useful questions, but rather questions that would kill attraction before I even got started.
These weren't questions I asked out loud, these were questions I asked over and over inside my head, and it seemed the more I asked them, the worse results I got.
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What kind of questions would I ask myself? Here are a few examples:
Does she like me?
Should I call her yet?
What should I say if I get an answering machine?
Why won't she call me back?
And so on and so forth. Later on, I learned the mere act of asking myself these questions was an attraction killer. Why? Because it let her control the relationship, let her have the authority. I was responding to her, broadcasting doubt, something women have a nose for.
See, women avoid doubt like the plague. It's the ultimate attraction killer. If she senses you have self doubt, you're done. That's why women will date loser jerks who have no doubt vs nice guys who are better for them who doubt their attractiveness.
Here's what I discovered, however. When I quit asking myself these questions, and replaced them with strong, confident beliefs, my success with women soared. Instead of asking myself "does she like me?" I'd think, "what about this woman qualifies her to spend time
with me?"
Instead of wondering if I should call her, I'd call her because I damn good and well felt like it. If she answered, I'd give her an opportunity to spend time with me. If she didn't I'd let her know I was calling to do so, but she missed out, and better luck next time.
What made this work was that none of it was acting and none of it was forced. I simply replaced worthless questions that produced self doubt with strong beliefs that produced confidence and results. It was all internal, not external.
So, if you find yourself asking doubt inducing questions, put an end to it and replace them with attraction creating answers--your internal change will produce massive external results.
On with the fun....
-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"
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