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December 21, 2005
Don't ask, tell!
Hey guys,
I'll tell you a personal secret: I used to be frightened to ask a woman to spend time with me. I wasn't scared of women, because I knew that once I got to know her I'd be fine, but for some reason I was scared of asking.
In fact, this fear of asking wasn't limited to just women- it showed up whenever I had to ask someone I didn't know for something.
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Obviously this kind of fear can really affect your outcomes in life. You can't be successful without the help of other people, and if you're afraid of asking for things, you won't get them.
Now, I had no logical reason for this fear--usually when it got to the point where I had to ask someone for something they said yes, and were happy to say yes. Why? Because people really do like to say yes, and they find it flattering to be asked for things.
However, there were times when they said "no," (like that stupid credit card commercial), especially women. Why did they say no? Because I expected them to, and asked with doubt in my voice. The doubt was the killer, and even though they wanted to say yes, when they felt the doubt, out came the "no."
Now, I hate the word "no" so I set out to figure out how I could get more "yes's." Interestingly, here's what I discovered: when I asked someone for something, there were times when they said no, but when I told someone to do something with the expectation they would do it, they almost always said yes... and this was especially true with women.
People tend to respond very well to authority, and when you tell someone to do something in a way that makes them feel good, makes them want to do it, they don't tell you know. That's really the art and science of being a leader, getting people to want to do what you want them to do.
Women, however, respond very well when a man tells them they're going to meet somewhere instead of asking them. Now, you cannot have any doubt in your voice when you do this, and you can't be adversarial. The best way is to simply tell them in a naughty, funny way that, "here's what we're going to do." As long as there's strength behind what you say instead of doubt, she'll happily comply.
Remember, women are constantly searching for authority, and if she senses it from the beginning, she'll rarely say no. While if it's true that "if you don't ask, you don't get," it's more true that "if you tell, you almost always get."
On with the fun....
-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"
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