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December 18, 2005
The perils of wishful thinking
Hey guys,
A few nights ago I turned on NBC's Dateline and watched an episode about catching predators on the internet. These are deranged men who hang out in chat rooms looking for underage boys and girls (teens mostly) to meet up with for all kinds of nefarious purposes. Pretty sick stuff.
What Dateline did was this: they found a team of people to pose as underage kids, talk to predators, and then get the predator to commit to meet, just to see if they would show up, so they could capture it all on film.
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Sounds bad, huh? But it gets worse. Not only did these sick guys show up expecting to meet with someone underage, they were not people you would expect to engage in such things.
While there were a few obvious ne-er do wells, there was also an emergency room doctor, a teacher, a rabbi, and the saddest of all, an army sergeant and a Naval Chief Petty Officer. I presume the last two will soon be looking at extended time in Leavenworth, and Portsmouth Naval Prison, respectively.
Looking at these guys on the outside, you would never expect to find what was going on inside their heads--but it's there. And it's there in a lot of people, although not to the same degree.
Understand this: you cannot judge people based on appearances, or what you wish to be true about them. You can only judge them on their actions and make decisions about them based on those, both present and past. Wishful thinking about how people really are is a good way to get in trouble.
Obviously the Dateline sting is an extreme example, but there are many other more common examples of how people really are. For example, in the world of business, every single vendor holds themselves out as "honest, trustworthy guys who get the job done on time, every time at a fair price."
My ass. Some are deliberately lying and are out to cheat as many people as possible, some really believe what they say, but are so incompetent they cheat you anyways (exactly the same result as the guy who means to take your money), and a blessed few do what they say they're going to do when they say they're going to do it.
The problem is, they all say the same thing in the beginning, they all look alike when you start the relationship. That's why you have to pay attention to their behavior, past and present to give you clues about how they're going to perform, and why you must make them earn your confidence by giving them small jobs and watching them like a hawk, ready to pounce at the slightest "mistake" or aberration.
Obviously the same concept applies to attracting women. Here "wishful thinking" is even more perilous, because beauty tends to make guys dumb. If she's a stripper, she probably isn't a sweet girl making her way through law school, she's a stripper. You have to look at behavior, not looks, and certainly not what you want to be true.
Most guys get in trouble with women because of wishful thinking, trying to make her into what she's not. You have to pay close attention to her behavior, past and present. Only her behavior will give you a clue as to how she'll act in the future, not her looks, and not any wishful thinking on your part.
On with the fun....
-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"
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