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December 27, 2005
The truth about "confessing your feelings" to her
Hey guys,
It happens in every movie. At the end, the guy "confesses his feelings" to the woman, she falls madly in love with him, and they live happily ever after. Same thing happens on TV. And it happens over and over, in every show, year in and year out.
It's a conditioning process, perhaps not by design, but a conditioning process nonetheless. And every guy is subject to this conditioning process from birth, and thinks that's how you should approach women.
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And, if you ask almost any woman, she'll agree, saying that "yes, you should just be yourself." Ahh, but reality intrudes.
The guy grows up, meets a woman in the real world, goes on a few dates with her, then, confesses his feelings, expecting her to fall madly in love with him, just like in the movies.
What happens next is not what happens in the movies. Usually there's an awkward pause, and the woman says something like "that's nice," or let's just be friends, and the guy never sees her again.
What's going on here? It's what happens when reality clashes with what "should be." Now, there are a lot of "should be'ers" in this world, talkers who run around giving advice about how the world should be, never stopping to notice that they're not getting results.
If you want to get results in the real world, you have to embrace reality, plain and simple. And, the reality is, if you confess your feelings to a woman, the attraction fades instantly, even one who just said an hour ago that she wished a man would share his feelings with him.
Now, does that mean you should never share your feelings with a woman? No--what it means is, you'd better spend a considerable amount of time with her, and be in a de-facto relationship, an interaction where you act towards each other like people who are in a long term relationship.
What will usually happen is this: she'll want to have "the talk" with you, and at that time, you can tell her, that yes, indeed, you feel the same way she does, and it's time to make what's obvious official.
But you do NOT do that when you've just met her, no wonder what all the "should be-er's" and talkers tell you.
On with the fun--
-John Alanis
The King of Let 'em Come to You
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