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December 05, 2005
What do you talk about?
Hey guys,
Want to have a lot of fun? Then here's a neat exercise: go to any coffee shop, café, or bar and focus in on the conversations that are happening around you. Don't just listen to the words, pay attention to voice tone, gestures and facial expressions--they can tell you a lot about people.
What will you hear? A lot of moaning, bitching, peeing, whining and self aggrandizement. What you won't see is a lot of "listening" or discussion about action oriented items (i.e. learning).
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It's a big reason why most people get the outcomes they do--they literally talk themselves into misery. They whine about how everything is unfair, how life is cheating them, how dumb everyone is, and how much smarter they are. They blather on about themselves to someone who's paying no attention because they're thinking of what impressive thing to say next.
How you talk--both out loud and to yourself--has a lot to do with how you shape your world. If you spend your time on "reactive talk" (bitching, whining, moaning), you will get reactive outcomes--outcomes chosen for you, not by you. If you pay close attention to most people, you will hear primarily reactive talk.
Now, don't get me wrong--successful people spend their share of time bitching and moaning, but there is one important distinction--they talk about how to fix the situation, how to create the reality they desire... they engage in creative talk.
Creative talk has an action component to it. When you are around successful people you will often hear things like, "How did you do that?" or "Where did you get that?" and other phrases that are precursors to action.
Continuous creative self talk--backed up by actions and acquisition of reliable information--is a powerful way to build a strong self image. You don't dwell on the past, you create the future--you don't orient yourself towards tearing down, you orient yourself towards building up.
So, as you go throughout your day, pay attention to others talk--if you hear creative talk, you should stop and see what you can do about getting to know that person better. If you hear reactive talk, move on. Most importantly, check your own language--if you hear yourself lapsing into reactive talk, immediately switch it to creative talk... your world will quickly become a better place.
On with the fun--
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