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December 10, 2005
Why you have to "finish"
Hey guys,
I used to have a friend who thought he was good with women. And, in one respect he was--he was an expert "phone number getter." It was funny to watch him--he'd go up to a woman, start talking to her, and then a few minutes later he'd bounce away from her with a doofy grin on his face. Sure enough he had another phone number.
Here was the problem, though: nothing ever happened with these phone numbers. It was like he was a professional phone number collector (he kept all of them). Instead of spending time with any of these women, he just kept collecting phone numbers.
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Here was his problem: he thought success with women was getting a phone number, and he was always mystified as to why they never called him back. The truth was, he never created attraction in the first place, he just asked for phone numbers. Just about any woman will give you a phone number--all you have to do is ask. But whether or not she will meet you again is a completely different thing.
It all comes back to clarity of purposes, to defining the conditions of victory before you take any action. If you don't have clarity of purpose you'll just wind up being another phone number collector. But, if you sit down and write out your desired outcomes with women (they're different for every guy), you'll now have something to measure success against.
More importantly, you won't confuse steps to success (such as exchanging contact information) for success itself (your final outcome), leading to frustration. Success comes with getting your hands on good information (such as my Ultimate Unlimited Lifetime of Power and Success with Women System, see http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm for details), taking action, and measuring the results against written goals.
What this process also does is remove the negative emotion--you're simply testing and getting results, and if you get a result that's not in line with your goals, you simply take different action based on your experience to get a better result. When you think about it like this, it removes all the fear of rejection.
So, before you go out to attract women, make sure you are clear in your purpose, that you're not just fooling around with steps in the success process, you're intent on finishing the success process. The guy who gets 27 phone numbers and no dates is way behind the guy who gets no numbers and the woman he wants.
Don't be a phone number collector, be a finisher.
On with the fun....
-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"
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