At last! The  truth about dating, seduction, and getting sexy  women to approach you first for a date, no matter your looks, age or income!

"You're about to discover dating secrets most men will never know-- how sexy women will approach you first"
"The King of Let 'Em Come to You"

Click Here To Bookmark My Site!

Would You Like the King to Send YOU Big Fat Checks?

  Click Here Now to Discover How You Can Get Big Checks Month In and Month Out For Revealing Dating Secrets to Men--with Virtually No Work On You Part Whatsoever!

Who Else Wants FREE Money from the King?
Click here now to discover how...

Dating Secrets Revealed.. Tired of rejection every time you try to pick up beautiful women, hot girls, even hot wives?

“Who Else Wants Desirable, Beautiful, Sexy Women to Approach YOU First For a Date, No Matter Your Looks, Age or Income?”

No weird far out “nlp” or “hypnosis” that’s hard to learn and doesn’t work for most guys anyways… only tested, proven secrets that literally force beautiful sexy women to boldly walk up and talk to you first  … no more “meeting beautiful sexy women”… now they meet YOU!”

Wisdom From
the King:
This Week's "Sexy Women Approach You" News
at John
John Alanis
John Alanis, "The King of Let 'em Come to You," and author, Secrets of Natural Attraction:  How to Get Beautiful, Desirable Sexy Women to Chase You
Will Your SUCCESS STORY be the next one posted here?
“These secrets really opened my eyes. After a bitter divorce I moved to Denver to get away from my ex-wife and basically ‘start over.’ I knew no one in Denver and had no way to meet anyone. I was burned out on women, and skeptical about ever meeting one who I could just enjoy spending time with. But, I gave John’s secrets a try, and to my utter surprise I “hooked up” with a cute Emergency Room Doctor! She really likes being my “adventure partner” (just like John taught me she would), and our “relationship” is completely stress free. This is how it’s supposed to be!

-S. Daniel, Real Estate Broker
Denver, CO
“Wow, I wish I’d had this book in college, when I was 21! Better late than never, though. I’m 37 years old, balding, and kind of gruff looking—I never believed these secrets would work for me. But I decided I had nothing to lose, so I recently tried them in a popular local bar. Sure enough, a cute blonde named Amy came up and started talking to me… she even gave me her number. I was so stunned these secrets worked that I didn’t call her back. I couldn’t believe this was actually happening just like John said it would. She finally called me, and we decided to go bowling… funny thing though, we never made it to the bowling alley!”

-J. Turner, Webmaster
Austin, TX
“These secrets are fantastic. I travel a lot in my business so I don’t have time for a steady relationship right now. John’s secrets have allowed me to meet sexy women in every city I travel to. I spend time in New York, Philadelphia, Phoenix, Baltimore, as well as here in Toronto. A few days before I arrive, I put John’s secrets to work for me online, and always have a date, no matter where I am in the world. If I ever decide to ‘settle down’ I know I can use them to meet that one special lady, but for right now, I’m having way too much fun dating and meeting sexy women! Thanks, John!”

-Robert O., Marketing Consultant
Toronto, Canada



































































































The King's Daily Attraction Tip 11/12/04

Flooded with Questions

Dear Friend and Subscriber...

I’ve received a ton of questions over the past few days, so I’m going to take some time to answer a few of the most relevant ones. Here’s one way you guys can really help me out: be as specific as possible, using the shortest number of words. 

I get a lot of questions that go: “Hey John, there’s this one girl I’ve really liked for a long time, but I don’t know what to do. Can you help me, and be as detailed as possible.” That’s a pretty vague question, and the answer to it really is to invest in my materials—the answer to that question is more than a paragraph (obviously), which is why I wrote Secrets of Natural Attraction (see ) If you don’t have it, get it, read it, test it out in your situation, then send me your specific question, and I’ll try to answer it in this venue.

Discover how to never get your heart broken again, and experience only the fun and pleasure women have to offer you. Imagine, finally being in complete control of your own outcomes with women. Only a select few men will qualify for these secrets—to discover them before it’s too late, go to:

There is one more quick thing I want to bring up, however. Occasionally, I’ll get someone emailing me, asking me for a “free chapter” or assurances that my information will “work for them,” or some excuse for not taking action. Look, one thing women look for in a guy is decisiveness, and the ability to take action. I’m not asking for $10,000.00 here (although I may yet come up with a $10K product)—the price I charge is a heck of a lot less than most guys spend at the bar in a weekend, plus I offer a money-back guarantee (although you guys know how I feel about refunders—don’t order if you’ve already decided it’s “not going to work in my situation.”) 

The simple act of making a decision, taking action, and investing in a product that has been proven to work over and over will do a lot for you becoming successful with women—finding reasons not to take action won’t. I’ll be honest with you—if you’re having issues making a simple “buying decision,” you’re going to have issues implementing the material and getting women to approach you. I can only provide the information, I can’t control how you use it. OK, on to the questions.


My problem is approaching women in public
places. I fell obtrusive unless there is some reason
to "break the ice." As a result, all of my girlfriends
I have met through other people. Everyday I bump into
desireable and obviously interested women but have
problems initiating conversation. 

Can you help?


JA: Thanks for the question, Chris. I can relate, because I used to have the exact same issue. Here’s what I do, and it works like crazy, even though at first it sounds dopey. Work on what I call your “naughty boy smile.” Whenever you see a woman, look her in the eye, think “naughty thoughts,” then keep looking her in the eye as she smiles back at you (they all do, it’s called the “mirror effect.”) Then simply ask her in a mischievous voice, “What are YOU smiling about?” 

She’ll usually laugh, knowing you caught her being attracted to you, and then you can take the conversation from there. What you’ll soon discover is, women are dying for a bright, fun guy to come talk to them. Just get in the habit of talking to all women, making them smile, and having brief conversations with them. If you’re ever stuck for a topic, just ask them about themselves—you’ll never be stuck again.

Hello John, 

This is Casey. I e-mailed you a couple of days ago on the issue of "time" and asking if your techniques would work for a particular girl who I had waited a very long time to talk to. First off, thanks for your naughty boy report, VERY useful. 

About the girl. I have not gotten a chance to talk to her since then. However, there is this online site in which you post your picture and profile for kids in your college to see. I found her profile and "poked" her, which means that she knows I saw her profile and perhaps found it interesting. She poked me back, meaning she was aware I had seen her profile and she had now seen mines. A couple of days later, I sent her a message through the site and I know she received it, but didn't answer. It was a relaxed, cocky and funny message. 

The thing is...after she read it, she proceeded to put up certain messages on her AIM away message which I know were meant to me. Last night, she put a message which said "boys...sometimes a girl just needs one. ;-)...goodnight" then she came back on a few minutes later, and put up one that said "what you do comes back to you 2 times, goodnight ;-)"...John, if you understood our unspoken history, you would KNOW that these were about my message to her. Basically, she's saying "how does it feel now that I don't pay any attention to YOU."

I want to keep this up and I want to message her and be like "what, playing hard to get already?" and maybe some other cocky and funny stuff, but I dont know if I should. She is bascially telling me that now its her turn to not pay any attention to me and that she might have lost interest. Please JOhn, you started me off me finish this!!! Should I talk to her/message her, what do you recommend saying, doing? thanks a bunch in advance. 


JA: Casey, go back and re-read the email you just wrote me. You’re letting her define the relationship, not you. Bad thing—women hate that. Quit pussy-footing around and simply lay down the rules of how your relationship is going to be. Also, go date other women—you will be amazed at what happens. First off you’ll discover that there’s other special women besides this one, secondly she’ll see that she can be easily replaced. NOW, don’t do it to spite or manipulate her—date other women to expand your range of experience. You might be surprised to find someone you like a heck of a lot more than this one. Also, you need to get your hands on my book—no freebies, this time! Go to I talk a lot about the importance of “defining authority” for her. While you’re still in college get my book—I wish I’d had it myself when I was there! Go live the college life I should have lead!

Hey John,

Your stuff really impresses me, i think your a genious and im buying your book real soon.
But i think i've got a stumpper.
Theres this girl that's like me for about 5 years. And I've liked her for about 5 years. We never hooked up. Why? I dont know. Well accually i do, we were young and too shy to do anything about it except hold hands or keep warm in eachother's jackets. Anyways, she drifted away as we got older, friends came and went. But we still see eachother and i still want to be with her. She does feel the same i know it but she got out of a long term relationship about last year. She also lost her virginity to him! when she was young! I think thats a huge problem, Shes been on him off and on since then. You see he's badboy rich guy. what can I say? im a badboy too right? but rich? certainly am not. Im tryin to take your advice on trying to make her attracted to the things that used to attract her, but she was young then. So was I. I dont even know what attracted her to me. I've tried everything.

Hope you can help me out a little



JA: Thanks for the email—my staff awaits your order! Look, money has absolutely nothing to do with attracting women. There are tons of hot, sexy, great looking, intelligent women who continually support lazy and stupid boyfriends because they feel the narcotic high of attraction around them, AND they love the challenge of trying to “change him with love.” Of course that’s not what happens, and they wind up broke and embarrassed when El Jerko moves onto the next one. The point is, is that money doesn’t matter a bit—it’s attraction that matters. 

I’ll give you the same advice I gave Casey—go expand your horizons and date other women. Also, pay attention to what the current guy is doing (badboy wise) and integrate some of those traits (the healthy ones) into your personality. As time goes on, and you date different women, one of two things will happen: one, you’ll discover there are a ton of great women out there, and you’ll lose your attraction to this one. Two, you’ll start creating attraction for her, and she’ll come back on your terms. Just don’t make the mistake of stopping what attracts her, or she’ll be back with the rich bad boy in a heartbeat.

On with the fun, 

-John Alanis
“The King of Let ‘em Come to You”

PS Do you like the idea of women instantly feeling a deep connection with you, even if you just met 15 minutes ago? For details about how to do this—and more-- go to, right now!

PPS Are you finally ready to master every part of your dating and relationship life? Go to right now.

***Important Note***
All of my daily emails are posted and archived at So, if you missed one, just go
and read it online!

Click Here To Bookmark My Site!

Recommended by the KING: Check out these other great "Girl Getting" Resources...

"My Friend Bet Me I Couldn't Get a Date With the Hottest Chick in the Gym - But When He Watched Her Turn Around and Walk Right Up to Me First ..." 

    You should have seen the guy’s face… his jaw nearly hit the ground. He never, ever would have believed this stunning, sculpted beauty would approach me first! And this wasn't an isolated event. Fact is, I haven't approached sexy women in years. 

    Why should I, when I know how to make sexy women come to me first? You can make sexy women come to you, too – click here now to discover why she came to me, and how you can do the same with these dating secrets.

"My Friend Bet Me I Couldn't Get a Date With the Hottest Chick in the Gym - But When He Watched Her Turn Around and Walk Right Up to Me First ..." 

    You should have seen the guy’s face… his jaw nearly hit the ground. He never, ever would have believed this stunning, sculpted beauty would approach me first! And this wasn't an isolated event. Fact is, I haven't approached sexy women in years. 

    Why should I, when I know how to make sexy women come to me first? You can make sexy women come to you, too – click here now to discover why she came to me, and how you can do the same.

Free Dating Secrets For Men 
Click Here

"Would You Like Desirable, Sexy Women to Email You RIGHT NOW, Eager to Meet You in Person?"  
The King has arranged a FREE Trial for you at, the most successful dating site on the internet... I have had more women approach me from this site than any other.  To post a FREE profile, simply click on this link now: Register at for free!

A Special Message from the King about money...   

Do You Need Money to Attract Sexy Women?
I get this question a lot from guys. Everyone wants to know if “having money” is important when it comes to meeting sexy women. The answer is… yes AND no!  Look, you don’t have to have money to get sexy women to approach you.  In fact, whenever I first talk with sexy women, I hide the fact that I do OK for myself, moneywise.  I show up in my beat up 1992 Buick Regal (a car fit for The King—not!) and make jokes about it (yes, my dating secrets really work)

    HOWEVER… having money makes things better all the way around.  When you have money you can do things people who don’t have money can’t.  And used properly, money can be a great “attraction system.”

    I’ve been broke and I’ve had money, and I’m here to tell you, it’s better to have money. Much better. Money isn’t everything, but money can buy you freedom and freedom is everything.

    Most people have hang ups about money, or think making money is “hard” or “mysterious.” The truth is, it is embarrassingly easy, IF you know what you’re doing. If you don’t, then it can be very discouraging.

    Quite frankly, there are very few people I have any respect for when it comes to dispensing money-making advice.  Most spend their time talking about things they'd wished done, not anything they could ever do.  I hate people like that.  I hate talkers.  I hate bullshit artists-- you guys know that.  I like doers.  Listed below are three top-notch doers, people who I know and spend time with personally, both in public and behind closed doors.  

   They are the same, regardless of the situation, and I can assure you all of them do what they say, and more.  Much more.  I have great respect for them.  And if you know me personally, you know it's tough to earn my respect, not to mention my great respect

    Are these the only people I recommend?  No.  There are others, and I will put links to their websites up as time and circumstance permit.  But for now, I highly recommend you have a look at, and invest in, in what these guys have to offer.  Their information can literally make you "life-changing" money.

'Nuff said.

-John Alanis, "The King of Let MONEY Come to You"

Internet Success Story — Corey Rudl

Fact #1: Corey made $7,600,000 (that's $7.6 million) last year in online sales with his businesses.

Fact #2: Corey turned a failing product into $500,000 per year on the Internet.

Fact #3: Corey attracts over 1.8 million visitors to his sites... every month!

Fact #4: Corey has published the #1 best-selling Internet Marketing Course online for SIX years straight!

Fact #5: Corey has just released his latest research, his most recent testing, and his most profitable secrets to the public for the first time ever!

Click here now to read his story...

 Who Else Wants to Make Money Sitting Around at Home In Your Underwear?

"The Amazing Story of How a Completely Different Approach to Internet Marketing Took Me From Zero to Making $51,351.94 in Just 6 ½ Short Months, Working From Home - And Why I'm Convinced Nearly Anyone Can Copy What I'm Doing" by Yanik Silver

Click Here to read the rest of Yanik's remarkable story...

 "How 'MAGNETIC MARKETING' Will Change Your Business Life Forever- Amazingly Powerful Advertising, Marketing, Direct Marketing, Customer/Client Attraction and Persuasion Strategies REVEALED."
Click here now to discover more...

Home  |  Bio  |  Products  |  Order  |  Testimonials from men Testimonials from women  |  Articles Pictures  |  Contact

Use of this website is subject to our Terms of Use and Privacy Notice

© MMIV  Art of Steel Inc, All Rights Reserved. By entering, you agree to terms and conditions found by clicking here.  By entering your email address, you are also requesting and agreeing to be subscribed to my  free Women Approach You Now  email newsletter. You must be 18 or older to enter


Sunday 11/7/04
Archives of Last Week

Walk Before You Sprint
Monday 11/8/04

How to Develop Your Intuition

He Asked Her Out... One Day Too Late
Tuesday 11/9/04

Where Do Successful People Go When They Need Help?

Money For Nothing, Chicks For Free

Wednesday 11/10/04

From the Mailbag

Done For You?

Thursday 11/11/04

Topics of Conversation

Puts an End to Rejection Forever

Friday 11/12/04

Flooded with Questions

Saturday 11/13/04

Wisdom From the King:  Last Week's News at John
Sunday 10/31/04
Archives of Last Week

Halloween Havoc!
Monday 11/1/04

Monday Mailbag

Don't Let This Happen to You
Tuesday 11/2/04
Election Day

Vote for the King!

Why I'm Going to Ask You For Money in This Blatant Advertisement

Wednesday 11/3/04

Important, Serious Announcement

John Alanis and Female Companion Seriously Injured in Brutal Criminal Attack

Thursday 11/4/04

An Unusual Secret From the German Army

How to Take Baby Steps

Friday 11/5/04

Ridiculous News

A "Must Read" Before and After Story

Saturday 11/6/04

Saturday Success!

A Woman Reveals What Women Are Really Thinking


Do You Make These Mistakes With Sexy Women?

  1. Hoping and praying she'll "like you" because of "who you are?"

  2. Just "being yourself" around sexy women.

  3. Buying sexy women gifts, candy, flowers or jewelry to impress them?

  4. Being a kind, sensitive, caring guy who caters to her every whim and desire.

  5. Thinking that just because she's "with you" she won't dump you in a heartbeat for another guy.

  6. Thinking that just because you have money, a fancy car or a big house sexy women will be attracted to you.

  7. Going on "dates" with sexy women.

  8. Hoping she'll "let you kiss her" at the end of a "date."

  9. Buying sexy women drinks, hoping they'll "go home with you."

  10. Believing sexy women when they  say, "I just wish I could meet a nice guy."

If you'd like to put an end to all this nonsense and have beautiful, desirable sexy women approach you first, literally begging for a date, click here to discover how to NEVER be rejected by sexy women again

















































































 nuvell ebanned 123 oscoda beach resort pottstown mercury kfi640 cara zavaleta pics tranzas super swampers timea majorova realastate jkwon hayfa ctlottery restasis dierks bently christopher uckermann 36mafia emril rica peralejo moving backrounds thumbnail gallery teardrop camper puggle pictures buford pusser stonecrest mall blacktail magazine reddy heaters m400 skycar john agnello gotti kelly pickler prom dress dian sastro deeann donovan rio natsume sic flics defacialize shopgoodwill dinosours hummingbird tattoos backmasking gun klsex adinkra symbols chuckie akenz rudejam pointy tits patrick swazey wowasian menstration cycle snap yo fingaz foil heat mdf transfer la arrolladora banda el limon nbc dond muskegon summer celebration mitzi kapture dfcu financial jug fuckers nora aunor hot milly moris cartoonnet work gun jill arrington phim nguoi lon adam lamberg lds geneology emeniem naartjie northside isd effa manley yun joc kays merchandise pefcu sexy quotes oscoda michigan cottages leanne tweeden asheboro zoo killerpollo dem frenchize boys alyandaj amateurgallery charis boyle clarksdale press register americastestkitchen reyano tds metrocom eloans chartway bfcollection dorinda clark cole shepards pie recipes tacoma rainiers amyamyamy krumping slapshock jinbara meagans law wxrt piramide alimenticia humiliatrix neyland stadium good charlett tower iden webjal adrian karstan raynauds disease napoleon dynomite elvis presly maaco paint dangelos jib pussy pinata finish rocktoons fan beonce cabazon outlets lynne koplitz royal jennifer scholle darlie routier charmainesinclair perth austrailia matthias schleiden wtue mcalisters katia corriveau bejeweled2 zac efron cebridge connections rochester carburetors mercedesbbw quikpayday samantha luvcox lil wyane cinamark jacobstales fennec foxes michael asteriod belt moncton coliseum fnanb abby brammell paul finebaum pascals triangle roomba vaccum supertaboo golden bamaonline nnboards rudejam bathing ape hoodies candlebox lyrics anna nalick breathe acne causes acne-inc acne acne-inc causes of acne acne-inc inside peanut butter outside jelly lyrics loehmans amateurstraightguys jug fuckers xboxcheats spyspotter scarlet johanson svusd irene simm cottonmouth snake loli dorki bondanime minature pincher miniture pincher slimslots daisey dukes alliterations collin county appraisal district galena park isd asscrack kenny chesny suzy shier priory of scion lattc 03.mpg george younce bailbondsman piru bloods map baptismal gowns streetfight bartletts quotations fairwinds credit union sally yoshino hydrochlorot n64cheats drysol slipknot unmasked xpedia ddoggprn ovulex zappo shoes bar refaeli lumber liquidator jodphurs porche 911 turbo rogers and hollands dora the explora rothman furniture diplomat silas gigantosaurus eharmoney mojomovies lbusd water aerobics asstrafic sebastian rulli ebuams chesty morgan thehunsyellowpages pegasus faucets ytunnel pro pixandvideo katrina18 sonideros adela noriega colette guimond hot hkfiance diamante poem navy jass daytona500 tomagotchi farinelli patricia njdop cheap tamela mann deeker haleys hints schucks auto parts starry eyed suprise invisiline alejandra avalos square feet in acre tocarra schfifty five snotsykims meghan agosta clubonline system of adown cartoonnet work samaritans purse ornella mutti cecil whig smilez and southstar golden retreivers lagu melayu mp3 stouffers hilary duf iatn vesicare yatroo wdbj7 nicole oring nicole scherzinger pictures letoya luckett torn wolflist kissyfur pacland air liquide zenaida flava lackland webmail angelie jolie eyecandymodeling spainish flag george wassouf spongecola sublimethumbs wbteens julianna rose mauriello colplay wikopedia kwon boa wheezer car vince carter dunks wivk renweb teddy greiger wylie isd greenheck statesboro herald online pschology degrees carbide cutter insert jennie lyn berntson aliensong peachcare for teens la arrolladora banda el limon bearshear ashlee simson ask jeevees leaveweb dave navaro how to do punnett squares dinasours germanna college germanna community college worldleathermen psypoke chocha tnawrestling ed hochuli danier leather vida mario vasquez - gallery savanah sampson pancho barraza hot girls in thongs b101.5 hqlinks huricanes valantines day gilroy outlets wfnnb kingdom hearts2 shempland fabricland moon bloodgood impetigo pictures pbrnow 98rock wgem adultmatchdoctor synyster gates rule britannia composer rule britania aplusmath nodq crusty demon ozzy ozbourne excercise trampoline melayuboleh meriam al khalifa manute bol dangergirl raven samone headstrong trapt ebums world utah dwr sia breathe me lyrics snap yo fingaz conneticut limos dutch oven recipies wfbq denise vasi petopia vidsvids lovethecock celine dione hammasa kohistani dcfcu googloe wildhorse saloon wrcb apmex naughtyallie gaithernet reggaeton cristiano zack strenkert albert einstien anton van leeuwenhoek cmere deer gander mountian desi lund picture popcaps hashimotos disease honkey tonk badonkadonk darvin furniture zumies mdoc inmates kday travesties panteon rococo chris daughtry petition minature donkeys californiamissions high school muscial person locater boyart fasttimesatnau fudruckers unwriten criagslist cyclobenzapr lisa gleave megasat msnwebmessenger acuvue oasis how to make friendship braclets actress beryl tdecu ghostriders in the sky z103.5 dave chappele red sovine availity citalopram hydrobromide cape cod melody tent fine palcomix realsquirt chris daughtery sweetface mysene tribbing likemynudebody lilromeo weather luke stricklin hillshire farms quixstar nko navy jugfuckers yovo fake enemarotica msnmusic jonh cena paty manterola clavamox katoey novasure tvchix kramtoad lovely nymphets funbran selena y los dinos jonathan antin wsotg likemynudephoto levander johnson zex69 trip marketa janska russ parr morning show msndollz medevil armor familiy vacation package textwist occams razor nickleback you remind me clermont county auditor wktv online niv bible heb isd tia texada arachnaphobia miskeen ntta sirrodney ecklers online college classes annelise michel noahs bagels animal98 tweetsie railroad biggestdickinporn dahm triplets rachel mclish idebenol epsq jass navy yuk yuks sir jeffs ponygirls hotrodhotline mickie james nude everhome mortgage tripcheck dollarama liljohn ultimatepasswords pixies pillows emmit smith wpsd graigs list panty freek bobby chitwood wgar nicky starks goldigga wtmj4 jodie messina maggie moos missouri brazosport facts roger arliner young tcuncovered solosis forum lenka gaborova firstmark credit union bill oreily rochville university prettyhotbabes 204 ruger trini twinz smoke on the water-deep purple hot 92 jamz noodlebib compost tumbler phoenix backpage ana sofia henao tiger barbara bermudo fritatta fritata underarmor showbizpinoy gumaxxx consumer donovan frankenreiter alexa davalos drx9000 teenflood arizona interscholastic association greenskeepers lotion sacramento rivercats nudemanila chad muska quickcrete camisetas mojadas wapakoneta daily news rockaway bedding nngalleries adrianne curry naked ptcu wbab bernoullis principle chanhassen dinner theater meanbitches randall knifes 8thstreetlatina lmpeople meathole azereus raygold craftmatic beds carnell breeding natasha beddingfeild hilery duff akon soul surviver herbiceps family ltah zoogster funcoland lincon park tiffin motorhomes wild 98.7 volcom myspace layout mattie stepanek scdnr plymouth baracuda clark metra train schedule scleraderma mtx jackhammer evden eve nakliyat gwv vacations randys ring and pinion austrailian animals hummingbird fishfinder jfk assination if you could only see-tonic machinefinder dirks bentley jennylyn mercado vin deisel hustler musik lil wayne lil wayne hustler musik lil wayne hustler musik cunninglus harry conick jr graham colton band