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January 07, 2006

A game of luck... or skill?

Dear Friend and Subscriber,

What do most guys says when they finally meet a woman or "get a date?"

"It just happened for me."

"Today was just my day."

"I got lucky."

There's a big problem with all these sayings: they presume that success with women is a game of luck, when it is actually is a step by step, paint by numbers, easy as 1-2-3 game of skill. Any man, and I mean any man can LEARN how to be successful with women, no matter his looks, age, or income. To discover how you too can master this game of skill, and enjoy the fruits of victory..., go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.

On with the fun...

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Are you ready to step up to the Big Leagues and win a life of power and success with women? If so, then go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm.

Posted by john at 04:37 PM

Should you date multiple women?

Hey guys,

I get the question a lot from men: "what are your thoughts on dating multiple women?" In addition to this question, I also get the accusation, "all you're doing is teaching men to date lots of women instead of ascending into the heaven of marriage and the ever increasing bliss of a long term committed relationship."

For the record, I don't advocate one lifestyle over another. All I do is teach the skills of attraction, and it's up to the individual on how best to employ those skills, depending on their specific situation.

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Some men are at a point in their lives where they should be dating more than one women. Some men are not cut out for a long term relationship (as much as they may say they want one). Some men are not cut out to date multiple women, and should only be in a long term committed relationship.

However, to achieve both of these goals, you must be able to create attraction, plain and simple. And while I do not advocate dating multiple women (nor advocate NOT dating multiple women) I do advocate developing the skill to make yourself attractive to ALL women.

Just because you're attractive to women does not mean you have to--or should--act on that attraction. It means you have the choice to.

Attraction does not have to lead to dating or sex. It can, but it also leads to getting better results in the world. If you're attractive to all women, you find you get better service when you shop, have more female friends, and are more liked by all women. This leads to a healthy self image.

Women like men who are attractive to all women. That does not mean they like men who date as many women as they can--that's the distinction.

Mastering the art and science of attraction gives you what few men have--choice in your outcomes with women. But just because you can do something doesn't mean you should--discretion is (and always will be) the better part of valor.

On with the fun....

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"


PS Ready to step up to the Big Leagues and lead a lifetime of power and success with women? Then go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.

Posted by john at 10:17 AM