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January 30, 2006

Will you be one of the few to hear this attraction breakthrough secret?

Dear friend and subscriber,

I have something I want to share with you... but I can't do it via email. It involves a new, attraction breakthrough, something so powerful I cannot reveal it in an email.

So I have decided reveal this secret via a "closed group" teleseminar, and if you hurry you can register for this free event. To do so, and find out when it is, simply go to

http://www.johnalanis.com/teleseminar

...right now, before it's too late. Due to technology limitations, I can only allow a limited number of people on the call and I'd hate for you to miss out. So to be sure you're accepted for this unusual tele-seminar, go to

http://www.johnalanis.com/teleseminar

right now, before it's too late.

On with the fun,

John Alanis,
The King of Let 'em Come to You

P.S. You'll definitely want to be in on this brand new "never before" revealed teleseminar--I'm going to be interviewed by a woman! Go here to reserve your spot, before it's taken by someone else: http://www.johnalanis.com/teleseminar

Posted by john at 04:58 PM

A strong, calming presence

Hey guys,

Before we get started today, I want to remind everyone to pay close attention to today's afternoon episode. I have an exciting announcement to make, involving something I have never done before... you don't want to miss this.

Today I want to talk about a critical factor in the success of longer term relationships. Many guys who were formerly unattractive to women quickly master creating initial attraction... but can't sustain it longer than a few days.

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As a result, women constantly come and go from their lives, and they never really have a steady girlfriend, even though they may want one.

I've been writing these episodes for over a year and a half now, and most of the feedback I get tells me most men really do want one special woman in their lives. While they certainly don't mind a few fun adventures along the way, what they really want is a steady girlfriend or wife. I think this is a good thing--meeting lots of different women on a consistent basis loses its appeal quickly.

If most men truly do want "one special woman," why do they have so much trouble keeping a woman even if they master attracting them?

The answer is simple: the skills to create initial attraction, and the skills to sustain long term attraction are two different things.

You can create initial attraction by being cocky, funny, naughty, setting and controlling frames, etc., etc. But over the long term these lose their power if this one thing isn't present: a strong, calming presence on your part.

Women look to men for strength and security, and fewer men than ever have it today. They are filled with doubt, worry, and anxiety, and these internal fears quickly overwhelm initial attraction. Women quickly pick up on them, and are repelled by them.

When a woman feels things are going bad in her world, she turns to the man in her life for strength and security. She reaches out for a strong, calming presence. If it's there, she feels calm, and at peace, if not, she feels doubt and anxiety, emotions you're NOT supposed to feel around a man.

Good leaders always make their subordinates feel at ease, no matter the crisis. You must do the same if you want to sustain attraction with a woman over the long haul. No matter how bad things get in your life, when you're with her, you need to have a strong, calming presence so she'll know things will be OK, and so will you.

Too many men melt under the slightest pressure, turning into sniveling little babies, looking for a shoulder to cry on. This just kills attraction. Women want a man who rises to the occasion, who meets any challenge head on, who's graceful and calm under pressure. Give this to her, and she'll be with you as long as you want her to.

On with the fun....

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Don't forget to look out for my exciting announcement, coming in today's afternoon episode!

PPS Would you like to attract that "one special woman?" Go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.

Posted by john at 10:19 AM