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January 18, 2006
Want to attract women? Be a MAN
Hey guys,
No matter where you look in today's society, natural male behavior is actively repressed. Men are portrayed as weak and goofy on TV, today's so called "rock stars" are whiney, wimpy and "sensitive," and the educational system actively promotes the gender neutral male.
And women wonder why they can't seem to find a good man. It's because few males these days have a clue about what it means to be a man. So I'm going to take it upon myself to correct that in today's episode.
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First off, as a man, it's NOT OK to cry. Men don't cry--they rise to the occasion, taking action to correct what is wrong. Crying in front of people embarrasses them, and diminishes you... with one exception. And that is, if the event is so powerful, the emotion wells up in you, and no matter how much you actively try to suppress it (and that is key) it still comes out. You see that in football coaches, and in military leaders who have experienced powerful events. But they don't out and out boo-hoo in front of their people--they try to suppress it, like a man.
Secondly, men live to win and hate to lose. "It's not whether you win or lose, it's how you play the game" is the mantra of the wuss. "Winning isn't everything, it's the only thing" and "If you're not winning, you suck" are how men look at the world.
Now, that does not mean men "win" at the deliberate expense of others--it means they set out to accomplish a goal (setting the conditions for victory), and settle for nothing less than achievement. If they fall short, they feel terrible--and use that feeling to motivate them to work harder and achieve victory the next time. Men NEVER feel good about failure. Effort means nothing if you don't get results (contrary to what the self esteem crowd preaches).
Thirdly, men are not ashamed of their desire for women. They like what they see, they go for it with no apologies (but not without thinking about the outcomes of what they're going for).
Lastly, (for today--there's much more to this topic), men take responsibility for their actions and outcomes. They don't blame others for their failure to achieve results. They don't feel good about failure. They accept responsibility, and use what they learned to succeed in the future. They don't whine, they don't cry, they don't blame, and they don't feel good about failure. They get up off the mat, shake it off, and get back in the game, smarter, wiser, and hungrier than ever for the taste of victory.
Want to weigh in on this subject? Email me at helpme@womenapproachyou.com and give me some more "what men do and don't do" and I'll publish them. Best entry wins a copy of Secrets of Supreme Confidence Report.
On with the fun....
-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"
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