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February 06, 2006

Good news from the King

Dear friend and subscriber,

As you may or may not remember, I held my exciting "attraction breakthrough" teleseminar last week. Some of you were able to attend, but some weren't due to previous engagements even though they really wanted to be on the call.

Well, I have good news. I have decided to re-play the call, at a more convenient time for everyone. To register, all you have to do is go to

http://www.johnalanis.com/teleseminar

...right now, before it's too late. Due to technology limitations, I can only allow a limited number of people on the call and I'd hate for you to miss out. So to be sure you're accepted for this unusual tele-seminar, go to

http://www.johnalanis.com/teleseminar

right now, before it's too late.

On with the fun,

John Alanis,
The King of Let 'em Come to You

P.S. You'll definitely want to be in on the replay of this brand new "never before" revealed teleseminar--I'm going to be interviewed by a woman! Go here to reserve your spot, before it's taken by someone else: http://www.johnalanis.com/teleseminar

Posted by john at 04:02 PM

Everything you ever wanted to know about women and touch

Hey guys

Before we get started today, I have good news. I'm going to rebroadcast the teleseminar I did last week. I know a lot of you guys missed it because you had to work, attend class, etc., so I'm re-running it in the evening at a more convenient time for you. To register, go to www.johnalanis.com/teleseminar

What I want to talk about today has to with the proper way to initiate touch with women. Women love to be touched by men, but you have to do it right, or you'll startle her and that's that.

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Here's the email that sparked this topic:

I really enjoy reading your e-mails, John, and try to put them into practice. I met a lovely girl recently, and was getting on really well with her, until I got a little too intimate with my hands for her liking. Someone has badly hurt her in the past, I'm sure. Suffice it to say, she dumped me, saying I hadn't listened to her telling me to stop, even though she appeared to be enjoying the physical contact. I know I was in the wrong, but what I did was what any other man would probably have done in my shoes. How can I rectify the situation ?

Yours in despair,

Paul

JA: Paul, thanks for the email--this is a common experience guys have, and luckily, there is an easy solution. To find it, I'm going to put my soon to be released "King's Keys" to work, and give you a brief summary. (The King's Keys is like an "encyclopedia of attraction"--whenever you have a question about a specific subject like this man does, all you have to do is go to the index, look up your topic, then turn to the answer... it's magic!)

Turning to the Index, my King's Keys reveals the answers are on pages 95, 106-107, 203 and 226. A quick reading of the King's Keys reveals the following answer:

**From the King's Keys**

"The truth is, women do liked to be touched, and do liked to be kissed, but... only after they're gradually "warmed up." Obviously after you're intimate with her things are different, but when you're first feeling each other out, how you touch her or don't touch her will determine if she ever "feels you up."

I've used this analogy before, but I'm going to use it again since it gives such a vivid mental picture when it comes to how you should touch a woman. If you take a marble, put it in boiling water, then drop it into a glass of ice water, it will shatter. Why? The transition is too sudden. However, if you take it out of the boiling water, let it cool, then put it in the ice water it will be just fine. Why? Because there was a smooth transition. And when you begin touching a woman, there needs to be smooth progression, not a sudden jolt.

See, too many guys try to go from having a great time in conversation to "laying one on her" and catching her by surprise. Many times this will scare a woman who otherwise would have been very happy to kiss you, had you smoothly led up to it. It's the sudden jolt that can scare her off, not the kiss itself. Women like to be kissed... AFTER they've been warmed up.

So, let me tell you how the King does it... then you can put it to use and get some "royal results" of your own.

I always start with relaxing her via conversation--being funny
naughty, cocky, making her laugh, getting her to open up and talk about herself. After I feel her relax, and after I've made her laugh a few times I start to touch her in a very non-threatening way.

I'll make her laugh, and as she laughs I'll gently brush her forearm with the back of my hand. The next time I'll touch her shoulder with the open palm of my hand. If she responds positively to that, then I'll get a bit bolder.

Here's something I learned from a cute Asian girl three or four years ago: if a woman is not feeling attracted to a guy, she won't let him touch her. So, if she responds positively to my initial touch, I know there's a spark of attraction. If she continues to respond positively as I touch her shoulder, I know the attraction is growing. What I'm looking for is for her to touch me back in a like-minded way... when she begins to reciprocate and touch me, there's a mutual attraction.

After I touch her shoulder, I'll usually take her hand and comment of one of her rings, or her nails. Women don't wear rings just to wear them... they wear them because they like them. And women talk about things they like. So... I'll take her hand and say, "Hey I like that ring... is there a story behind it, or is it just a 'fun ring'?" Most of the time it's just a "fun ring," but she's always happy I asked, and I continue to hold onto her hand after she answers. Rarely do they pull it away... remember, I'm holding her hand after she's already responded positively to my touch.

Then I get a bit more daring. Instead of touching her shoulder, the next time she laughs, I lightly touch her kneecap with my fingers, and quickly pull them away. Many times I'll have women do the same to me, which is a good sign. I don't grab and squeeze, or touch her inner thigh, I touch her "teasingly" like a naughty little boy and then pull my hand away... after all, she must EARN the right to have me touch her more intimately.

Now, after all this, what do you think her reaction will be when I kiss her? Desire, passion? Yep... and I've even had one or two tell me, "It's about time you kissed me, what took you so long?"

To which I replied, "Well, it took you longer to EARN it!" Hah!

And that, my friends, is how you apply the "Magic Touch" to women!"
**From the King's Keys**

Powerful stuff, huh? But that's what the King's Keys is all about- the ability to instantly find answers to your attraction questions before they bite you in the butt. If Paul had this resource at the time he met her, she'd probably be touching him now. Unfortunately it wasn't complete yet, but it almost is. Stay tuned to see how you can be one of first to claim a copy of this "almost finished" resource.


On with the fun....

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Are you ready to step up to the Big Leagues and lead a lifetime of power and success with women? Then go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm

PPS Remember, if you missed last week's "attraction breakthrough teleseminar" you can hear it again at a more convenient time. Just go to www.johnalanis.com/teleseminar to register.

Posted by john at 10:56 AM