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February 10, 2006

Important, special announcement from John Alanis

Dear friend and subscriber,

Starting tomorrow and lasting until Valentine's Day (that's for three days, and three days only), I'm having a sale! Since it is one of the best times of the year to attract women (with information that REALLY works, not the whiney garbage you hear in the media), I thought I'd offer you guys a 17% discount on all my products, starting tomorrow.

I'll have a special link for you in tomorrow morning's email, so be sure to stay tuned. A lot of my product is "limited stock" and if it runs out before the sale ends, I will be forced to end this sale early, so fast action on your part is crucial. This sale will end for sure on Valentine's Day (Feb 14, 2006), so be sure you don't miss out.

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS While you're waiting for this unusual sale to start, treat yourself to other people's products that won't be on sale tomorrow. I especially recommend:

1. Shelly McMutry's Instant Attraction Generator (see www.johnalanis.com/shelley.htm )

2. David DeAngelo's Double Your Dating: http://affiliate.doubleyourdating.com/dt.asp?a=CD199&b=7&o=

Posted by john at 04:11 PM

The truth about approaching women

Hey guys,

While I'm a big fan of women approaching me, I'm also a firm believer in the fact that you need to develop the skill of approaching women, as you become better and better at the skill of attraction.

Here's an interesting letter from a woman on my list, taking me to task for getting women to approach me. I think you'll find my answer to her enlightening...

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John,

As a woman, I think it is a lame approach for the man always to have the women approach first so that he doesn't feel rejection. What you are developing is a one sided relationship that is self centered.

The woman will feel rejected by you and it will not speed up anything in the relationship but will make her wonder if you are even worth it.

I believe that a woman really finds attractive a assertive man who is willing to overcome his fears of rejection and talk to the girl. I am interested in a guy right now, but I am really ticked off because he always wants me to be the one who initiates anything, because his obvious fear of rejection. In getting a girl's heart you have to take some risks, if you don't she will go searching for someone else that will.

If she is the one coming to you, she may be checking you out but if you don't act like a man and make first moves as well you will loose her. Your method does not get rid of rejection forever, it's hiding from your fears.

You got to face up to your fears and know that you could be missing something great if you did not face them.

Laura


JA: Relax, Laura--I'm not against men approaching women, in fact I encourage it. However, when one is learning the art and science of attraction, things are much easier when you set up "automatic attraction systems"--you already know the woman is interested, all you have to do is enhance and sustain the attraction.

Authority really is the key to attraction, and if a man has no authority, there will be no attraction, even if the woman approached him first. It's up to him to continue the initial attraction, take the lead, and act like a man.

Once a man is comfortable around women, knows how to create attraction (giving him confidence) I highly encourage him to approach any woman he thinks he might be interested in. When he's at this level, he has no fear of rejection because he's built his self image to the point where he knows he's attractive to women... and if she declines to spend any time with him, that's her loss.

So, the key is to build an attractive self image starting out by women approaching you, then mastering attraction by talking to any woman you please, knowing you're attractive to women.


On with the fun....

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Are you ready to step up to the Big Leagues and lead a lifetime of power and success with women? Then go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm

PPS Remember, if you missed last week's "attraction breakthrough teleseminar" you can hear it again at a more convenient time. Just go to www.johnalanis.com/teleseminar to register.

Posted by john at 09:55 AM