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February 27, 2006

Am I full of bull? Let the readers answer...

Hey guys,

As you may or may not remember, I received an email from a guy on my list telling me that my course is nothing but bull, and that he was going to tell everyone he knew (instead of using his time to attract women). What was amusing to me was that, the very same day I received his email, I talked to three very naughty women on the phone using the same techniques I teach in my system.

But maybe it's just me. Maybe I was born attractive to women, and this stuff can't be learned. So, I decided to put my money where my mouth was, and ask 30,000 people what they thought of my system. Today I'm going to reprint those thoughts, and we'll see what the doers on my list had to say about my system.

A whole new approach to dating, women, and relationships that allows me to choose my own relationships with women, anytime, anyplace, anywhere, devoid of all heartbreak or misery, and I'm convinced any man can copy what I'm doing, no matter your looks, age, or income. Why would any sane man reveal these secrets if they were true? To discover the answer go to right now.

Before we get started, there are a few things I want you to look for in all these emails. Look for attitudes and beliefs about responsibility, education, and taking action--you'll see these emails have these traits in common... you can tell by just reading a few simple words. It's a valuable exercise, because it will allow you to predict if someone is going to be a positive or negative force in your life, based on their communication.

Let's start with Richard's email, so you can read what he had to say about my system being "full of bull."

I just thought I would let you know that your course is bull and does not work. And of course for anyone to get any of the better information if there is any info that works you have to pay more money. Well you can be sure that everyone I know and talk to on the internet will know that your course does not work and will not buy from you. By the way I probably talk to about 3000 people on the internet every week cause I work for dell computers and I will let all of them know your course is full of s**t..


JA: Well, my man Richard, let's see what all the doers, both male and female who got their hands on the exact same information as you did have to say. Here we go...


Dear John,

thank you for your wonderful emails. I have been reading your emails through my younger brother Fernando who is getting fantastic results since he is putting into practice what you are teaching. His cell phone does not stop ringing anymore since he changed his approach to women!! As his older sister, I am extremely proud of having a newborn-heartthrob brother.

John, you KNOW what ladies want- we do not respect wimps and love real men. That is why I am writing to confirm what you are teaching all those guys is just soooooooo true.

Keep up the work!!

Lots of love,


JA: Why thank you for the kind words, Emma--be sure to tell your younger brother "congratulations" for me, and to keep taking action and getting results.


Hey John!

I am offended of the wuss who wanted to slam you. If he can not score using your system, then he just is too scared to apply what you teach.

I have read several systems and I know your system is the best. I used to be like that jerk who could not score with girls, now after reading your system, not only am I scoring regularly but I have started to up my standards from 4's to hb at 9. That is amazing for me as I am in my 50's. The fact is that if I did not use and practice your system, I would be just like that wuss that wrote to you.

Glad I finally got to thank you for all that you have done for me. I am looking forward to receiving your new report What Women Really Think.

Richard L.

PS You are the best!

JA: Thanks for the great email, Richard... you have redeemed the name, that's for sure. Your report should be emailed to you by the end of the day, if it hasn't been already.


Dear John,

I agree with your readers when they state that attraction goes up exponentially when you develop the mind set of personal authority (I have your Authority System). By just believing that you are attractive to all women and that you decide whether or not they spend time with you is the key to success with women.

Also, just by absorbing the content in your daily e-mails helps to reinforce the successful mindset that every man needs to remain successful with women.

Thanks in advance for sending me a copy of your special report HOW WOMEN THINK.


JA: You are absolutely correct, George, personal authority is extremely important. In fact, while putting together my upcoming "Conversations with Women" Product, all the women I interviewed
said personal authority was the #1 important thing in a man. (To get your hands on my Secrets of Personal Authority System, see )



I would like to thank you, after applying the information you give in your products I started getting results instantly, now I went from never having a date in my life and being terrified of approaching women, to the point of never have worry about getting a date again in my life. And having women then I know want to do with. Also keep up the great emails and products.

Alex, Australia

P.S. the naughty boy smile works better then I ever expected

JA: Great to hear from a doer "down under," Alex. If there's anything that's as important as personal authority, it's the naughty boy smile. And I can tell you from personal experience, it works very well with naughty Australian women!



After reading Richard's email I just had to let you know that nothing this man said could be further from the truth.

I have read emails and purchased products from you as well as other proven "gurus" on the subject of women and attraction. They are quite informative and as I have learned through experience, quite correct. If you take the time to study and APPLY the principles in these programs, the rewards make it all worth while.

I'm 56, married 31 years and wanted to use what I learned to improve my marriage as well as improve interactions with women in general. I'm here to tell you that this stuff works IF you take what you learn and get out there and APPLY IT. Yes, I made mistakes along the way but you must think of them as learning experiences and apply what you have learned to future encounters and ultimately develop a style all your own.

Your teachings as well as the teachings of others has allowed me to spend many enjoyable times with single women, married women, white women, black women, asian women, spanish women, young women, older women AND my wife. They are truly wonderful creatures when you learn to understand where they are coming from.

The confidence you gain in your ability to fully understand and enjoy women also carries over to many other aspects of your life as well, particularly in business.

Richard, this stuff works. Gett off you butt and get out there.
If you want to learn how to swim, you're going to have to get wet.
That's the way it is. But, if you keep at it, you will swim. Good luck Richard and John, thank you and keep up the great work.

John B.

JA: John, thanks for the fantastic email, and thanks for letting everyone know that what I teach is just as useful for improving an existing relationship as it is for creating new ones. Also, when you understand how to create attraction with all women, even ones you're not interested in, your entire life gets better.


Hi John,

I continuously retrain my thinking from "wuss mentality" to "strong and manly" mentality. I catch myself more and more when I slip back into wuss behavior and shift my thinking every time to that of an authoritative, strong man.

I work in a massage school full of women and they constantly come up to me and want to touch me and talk to me more than they ever have. I am careful not to cross any boundaries as it is my place of work and massage therapists have to have strong boundaries. But man, I tell you, I am so much more comfortable around women and I am in the perfect place to practice being attractive to women. I more and more assume all women are attracted to me. Thank you for helping us men take back our cajones and finding our true natures.

Tim B.

p.s. I would love the report on "How women think"

JA: Thanks for the email, Tim. Presuming attraction is a powerful mindset, and it's very useful when relating with women you have no intention of ever doing anything with. Attraction is not just for sex and romance, it's a means of communicating with women on a level most men never can.



This guy is a loser. You're on the mark. The course, as in life, is what you make of it. Life is not about activity it is about accomplishment. This guys mistakes activity for accomplishment.

He thinks there is a magic potion in the course. There is. If you take it and make something with. My involvement is it redefine my authority with my wife and re-create the mystery that my wife wants in a man - me.

It has changed our relationship between us. I took the course without telling my wife to test it. It works. Thanks John


JA: Jose, this is my favorite type of success story, when a man uses my materials to make an existing relationship even better. What I teach is not just for attracting new women, it's for attracting all women, especially the most important one in your life. Congratulations on your success.



Look, I've had a variety of things bouncing around in my life that have keep me from making the "investment" in your coursework. One of the other things holding me back is that I KNOW I ACTUALLY NEED TO WORK AT IT..

This guy that gave you the "threat" about the 3000 people on the internet...

First of all, let's just go over this.. Anyone in management at Dell, finding out he was "dumping" on YOU or ANYONE or ANY product, would TERMINATE the fellow immediately.

Secondly, I've BEEN using your methods. At least the parts that you give glimmers of in your newsletters. John, let's face it...every "hint" you've given, that I've used HAS WORKED LIKE A MAGIC CHARM.

So you cannot imagine the DISTAIN I have for "losers" as your "critic".


Joe P.

JA: Hah, great to hear from you, Joe P. Congratulations on taking action and getting results, just with the secrets I reveal in my daily newsletter... a great reason for everyone to keep reading them.


Hi John,

My name is CJ and my husband receives your email. I have to say that you are 100% CORRECT (as well as wise!) in your response to this idiot ! I read your advice when it arrives and just sit here and shake my head and wonder why all men don't get it. The concepts that you explain are actually relatively simple. I probably read more of your emails than my husband does but then I go on and attempt to explain them to him...unfortunately, he still doesn't get it, but that's OK too because your take on men & women is giving ME a whole new perspective on relationships.

Haven't you noticed that when people complain, they're automatically going to tell the entire world, but when people are happy and content, they pretty much keep the information to themselves ? Shouldn't work that way....but it does....

Also, one last thing, I completely agree with you about the whole 'naughty boy' concept. It's ABSOLUTE and I, for one, am always attracted to the bad boy. However, you really have to make these guys understand that the naughty boy isn't really naughty, he just pretends to be and has fun with it.

My question to you is HOW did you get so smart ????


JA: Thanks for the great email, CJ, and thanks for telling all the guys how important this attraction stuff really is. As far as the "naughty boy" goes, you're quite right--what I try to get across to everyone is that what women really want is MAN with a naughty boy side, not just a naughty boy... but that side has to be there.

As far as how I got so smart? Well, the truth is I got that way because I got tired of not getting results with women, so I decided to take action, work my butt off, and change those outcomes. So, the answer is, hard work, plain and simple!


Hi King and Readers,

My name is Amy and I'm a long-time reader and fan of John Alanis.
I consider myself a recovering 'shy girl.' I'm the classic All-American girl next door type. This 'nice girl' personality is just as deadly as being a 'nice guy.' Sure, mothers love you, you have all sorts of friends, but as the saying goes, nice GIRLS also finish last when it really counts.

I don't remember exactly how I encountered John and his arsenal of incredible products, but I am very thankful I did. I started out reading his informative, yet entertaining daily newsletters. After awhile, I was so hooked, that I purchased his e-book and his Personal Authority CD Series. I am also a member of the Doers Only Club.

Now, I'm NOT an easy sell. I am very conservative with my money and extremely skeptical about, well EVERYTHING. But after reading and relating to many of the topics in John's free daily e-mails, I gave the products a shot.

As I stated earlier, I'm still in the recovering process of shyness. I definitely have a ways to go, but since I'm armed with the right information and a solid belief in myself, I know I can accomplish my goals.

I've always enjoyed being playful and naughty, yet the inner wuss always puts on the proverbial breaks because she's afraid of rejection and what people may think. Thanks to John's well crafted personal advice and line of materials, I'm slowly coming out of my shell. People are taking notice. I get this a lot, "I never knew you were funny." Love it.

I'm also in the process of starting my own business and have been writing informational e-books. I've never liked having a job (or just over broke) and trading hours for dollars. However, I'm not unmotivated, I just can't stomach reporting to idiots bosses, boring co-workers and having to ask permission if I want to take an extra hour at lunch.

John's advice has pointed me in the right direction, and with some smart and hard work, I'm hoping to fire my boss before the ball drops in 2007.

The most important aspect of John's work is that it applies to all areas of life. If you want to start a business, attract men/women, overcome shyness, whatever...his materials can help you out. They really are universal.

And he presents them in such a way that you don't have to read between the lines or have an active imagination. For example, he talks a lot about setting the frame in personal interactions. He may start out explaining how this helps you in business, then in the next paragraph explain how it will also help you with attracting women or dealing with people in general.

I could go on, but I think I've said enough. Richard needs to get a life if he's taking the time to discuss John's products with 3,000 people. Good lord.

Thanks John, oh...and John has great taste in music, hands down.
Any guy wearing a Judas Priest t-shirt rocks, no questions asked.
If your adventurous ways ever bring you to the Boston area, 'coffee' is on me.

Thanks again,

JA: Great to hear from you, Amy, and thanks for the wonderful email. Yes, there is so much more to the art and science of attraction, and it has a myriad of applications besides attracting women.

And yes, if I'm ever in your area, I will take you up on your offer... I must warn you though, I have a way of bringing out the naughty side of the nicest girls, so the pleasure will be all YOURS! Hah. Take care, and keep in touch.

OK, guys, that's it for now. I received tons and tons of emails on this, and there's no way I can reprint them all. But, I think you get the gist of it, that if you get your hands on good information and take action with it, you will get results.

On with the fun....

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

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