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I had purchased your E-book a couple of months ago, and let me tell you, it's truly a God-send! What I love about your instructions is they are very open-ended in how one can implement your techniques. One doesn't have to worry about "Oh shit, am I doing what such and such page instructed me to do correctly?!" - it beautifully managed to conjure up a bigger, practical "what to do" picture by the time I was finished reading it that, frankly, I doubt few other e-books on the matter will be able to pull off in their readers' minds. Needless to say, my results with women have been pretty amazing! The "smile your way through" technique alone is incredibly effective. Definitely smacks of the good ol' "small hinges turn big doors" maxim, and does so beautifully! It amazing how it's small things like this most of us men take for granted, instead trying desperately to put up some fake Al Pacinoesque or Johnny Depp look to attract women (and for the record, two gorgeous ladies I know of like neither of these actors :)! Most importantly, what I REALLY appreciate about your ebook is that the methods you implement can cater for men coming from ALL backgrounds - whether they are your average "free spirited" schmoe in the street, or even religious, spiritually inclined types such as myself. You may find this funny, but to be perfectly honest, before purchasing your product, I went through some trepidation before buying it, thinking it was wholly based on "best ways to flirt with women" in bars and so on - a practice that's strongly shunned by the culture I was brought up in. But upon finishing your book, I realized there are some fundamental truths about male / female dynamics that NO one in their right state of mind can deny... and us "religious" freaks have this thing for "truism" :) haha Once again, thank you very much for this awesome e-book. Two more semesters, and I'll be done with college - so, no more tuition fees! Which means you'll be looking forward to having at least ONE person purchase your Deluxe offer from my neck of the woods ;)"

February 12, 2006

Who should do the approaching? Men or women? The answer WILL surprise you...

Hey guys,

Before we get started, I just want to remind everyone that my Valentine's Day sale (where you can claim a 17% discount on all my products from today until Feb 14, 2006) is in full swing. I even have a special "Mother of All Offers" for you guys who want it all... you get a huge discount when you invest in all my products at once, and you even get my brand new King's Keys, a product not even officially released yet. For all the exciting details, and to claim your 17% discount, go to Don't delay- -this sale ends Feb 14, 2006 and when it's over, so are all the discounts.

Well, it seems there is a bit of a controversy brewing over who should approach whom when it comes to attraction. Here's a letter one of the women on my list sent in... and my "comeback!"

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Hi John

Your 'let'em come to you' approach just makes me laugh.

I'm an attractive woman (I know it's bragging, but I am anonymous here, and I've been called 'gorgeous' more times than I can count) and I wouldn't DREAM of approaching a man.

Women are taught that men love a chase and if you approach a guy he may well be flattered but it kills attraction.

My philosophy is ALSO 'let'em come to you'.

Any attractive woman knows men will approach her, so why would she bother approaching some guy who's too timid or too bloody minded to do what is HIS JOB and approach her? Men approach women, not vice versa.

What makes me laugh is if both of us are waiting for the other one to come to us, nothing ever happens!

I can tell you right now, I'm the one at the bar you're all looking at, and if you're waiting for me to approach you, you'll be waiting a looooooong time!

You'll lose me to the cute guy who had the balls to come up and try his luck.

You're right on the money about men with authority, though.


JA: Thanks for the email, Jacqueline. I'll tell you something very interesting. Whenever I employ one of my automatic attraction systems, and a woman approaches me first, she always says the same thing: "I've never approached a man before--this is the first time." To which I always say, "That's because I'm different from all the waldos you're used to meeting--you've never met a man like me before and you knew you'd better take action or you'd never get a chance to see where this might lead."

Now, I'm not against men approaching women in any way, shape or form. In fact, I encourage it, even teach it. But when you employ an automatic attraction system that gets a woman to approach you first, the cream tends to rise to the top.

See, you'll never catch me in a bar with all the barflies competing over the limited supply of bar babes to take home. Not much quality there--the people you meet in bars are people who tend to hang out in bars... a lot. In a bar situation, scarcity is working against me... I have competition.

I much prefer attraction in a vacuum, with scarcity on my side.
Let me give you an example. Let's say you decided you want to learn how to make more money, wanted to run your own business. You decided to go to a seminar to hear an expert (me) speak on that subject.

When you get there, the room is filled with men, but there are three other women there, all just as attractive as you are. When I get on stage, not only do I deliver some of the most astounding information you've ever heard, I'm also funny, naughty, and obviously in command of the entire room.

I make eye contact with you during my talk... but I also share that eye contact with the other, equally attractive women. After I'm finished speaking, there's a rush of people (men and women) who want to talk to me further.

As you hear me talking, you know I'm much different--and much more attractive--than every barfly you ever met... none of them can do that
I do. You're interested in meeting me, getting to know me further. But so are the other, equally attractive women. And, I'm leaving in a few hours... what do you do? Wait for me to approach you? I don't have time, plus three other women took action and approached me. You have a decision to make...

Do you guys reading this see the power of the automatic attraction system (this is just one of many I teach, others are simpler and don't require speaking in public), how it reverses scarcity?

Now, here's the kicker: this is NOT a hypothetical situation. It is a situation I've seen played out over and over, every time I speak. I have never spoken in public and not been approached by multiple women after I'm finished. I have had all kinds of adventures with these women, and because I know how to sustain attraction, I still keep in contact with all of them. And they all still agree, they've never met a man like me.

This all has to do with "framing." Under the wrong "frame" (i.e. I'm just another guy in a bar competing with other bar flies) you'll never approach me. Ever. But under the right frame, where I am a scarce resource, where YOU'RE the one competing with other women, you will approach me each and every time. Reading this you might say you wouldn't, but when you're in the situation, it's a different story. Every single woman who has ever approached me in this situation has always said I'm the first guy they approached, that men always approach them. The reason is, I know how to employ automatic attraction systems and they don't.

Does this preclude me from approaching a woman if I find her attractive? Of course not--I've developed that skill as well. But I don't have to because I know how to employ automatic attraction systems, know how to get them to come to me. And the attraction is sustained, not killed because I've developed the skill to sustain it.

As far as chasing goes, I hate it, and most men hate it. I much prefer women to chase me--it's much more time efficient, and they're much more attracted (even though they deny it) because they had to work to get me. And people appreciate what they had to work for much more than something that was just handed to them. Automatic attraction systems put an end to the need for having to chase women. Either they chase me, or we skip the chasing altogether and get to the fun part, spending time enjoying each other's company.

What I do is teach men how to have choice with women. Instead of wasting time chasing, or settling, they get to spend time with the women they choose. Such is the true power of the automatic attraction system--it gives you choice, and time to enjoy the choice. That's the true benefit of what I teach... and it's why women continue to approach me (and my successful students) over and over and over again.

Who else wants to join me in being approached by women?

On with the fun,

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

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PPS In the next few days I'm going to have an unusual opportunity for all the women on the list... stay tuned!

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9. Buying sexy women drinks, hoping they'll "go home with you."

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