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March 08, 2006

Now she's gone-- will she come back?

Dear friends and subscribers,

If you've ever had a woman suddenly leave you, you know it feels like a punch in the gut, even a knife in the back. You may feel all kinds of different things--rage, anger, hatred, even betrayal.

But here's something interesting: if you feel all these things, underneath all of them, you'd really like to have her back. Why?
Because if you didn't, you just wouldn't care--you'd be happy she's gone.

Here's an interesting secret: the reason most women leave is because they simply didn't feel attraction for you any more. It's that simple. But there's a silver lining here: if you recreate the attraction, she'll come back IF you want her.

See, when you know how to create attraction, women suddenly flock to you. You have what few men have: choice. Why? Because while women crave attraction like a narcotic, few men know how to create it. If you know how, then you can rule your own world with women and never have to worry about being dumped again.

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On with the fun...


-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

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Posted by john at 04:15 PM

Why 1/10 of a second is the difference between creepy and attractive

Hey guys,

Yesterday I went to the physical therapists. My shoulders were bothering me (probably from too much typing) and I went in to get them loosened up (they feel great today). While I was waiting I saw an interesting situation play out.

There was a very attractive woman working out (my PT's office is in the back of a private gym), and a guy who was obviously interested in her.

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Whenever he thought she wasn't looking, he'd stare at her from a sideways angle. (Women always know you're looking). When she'd turn towards him, he'd turn away, pretending he didn't notice her (like she'd never seen that one before).

Finally, she turned abruptly toward him, and caught him staring right at her head... and he froze. It was an uncomfortable situation, and she gave him a dirty look, even though he was in pretty good shape. Why? Because he came across as creepy--I could feel his creepiness, even though I was out of the picture.

Soon enough he scurried off, and she went back to working out. So I decided to look at her... in an attractive way.

First off, I made no bones about the fact that I was looking her way. Why wouldn't I? I'm a man, and I enjoy looking at attractive women. BUT... you must understand I did not ogle her, or stare at any "parts."

I simply looked right at her face, smiled my famous naughty boy smile, and focused my attitude and intent into one of playful naughtiness. She looked up and "caught" me looking at her, and I smiled even bigger, and tilted my head.

What did she do? Smiled back, of course. Then I shook my head slowly and started laughing a bit, letting her know I was way different from the other guy. She blushed a bit, then went back to working out.

Just before I got called in, she finished her set, so I looked at her again, and said, "what are you smiling about?" and we were into the conversation.

What was the difference between me and the other guy? Besides the fact that he was tall and had a full head of hair, and I'm short and balding? The difference was authority and a fun, playful attitude on my part. When she looked at me, I didn't look away--I let her know she "caught" me doing such a naughty thing as looking at women.

Also, I had no ulterior motive other than to make her laugh, and so she did. You could tell Mr. Creepy wanted to ask "if she had a boyfriend" and it made the whole atmosphere uncomfortable.

The difference between attraction and creepiness was 1/10 of a second... when she looked at him he weak and nervous and believed that by looking at her he was doing something bad. When she looked at me, I projected strength and playfulness, with the belief I was just having fun, doing something only a naughty boy would do.

That's why he got the dirty look, and I got the... well, that's to be continued at a later date!

On with the fun--

-John Alanis
The King of Let 'em Come to You

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Posted by john at 10:15 AM