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March 25, 2006

A woman speaks out on "authority"

Hey guys,

As many of you know, I recently released a new product entitled, "Secrets of Personal Authority: How to Get Other People (Especially Sexy Women) to Want to Do What You Want Them to Do" (see http://www.johnalanis.com/authority.htm ) I've got a lot of doers who took action, got their hands on the product, and are getting great results (and one talker who, instead of taking action, is whining and about to be banned).

But, I have gotten a few guys asking me, "what do women think about authority?" Well, I have the answer for you in black and white, from one of my long time female readers--here's the email she sent in:

Hi John,

When will men understand that FOXY WOMEN WILL RESPOND TO ANY MAN -WITHIN REASON -AS LONG AS HE DEFINES AUTHORITY. I COULD SCREAM IT FROM THE ROOF -WE JUST WANT MEN TO BE MEN- WE JUST WANT MEN TO EMBODY MALENESS.TAKE CHARGE-make it your mantra just remember to be very nice as well and you have a winning formula.

IN ADDITION THE PERFECT GUY IN A WOMENS EYES ALSO CONFIDES AND TAKES ADVICE..says things like..what do you think..what should I do...

MUSIC TO THE EARS OF ATTRACTIVE POWERFUL WOMEN: If spoken lightly....

NO,NOT NOW,I AM GOING TO TAKE YOU..COULD YOU PLEASE SIT DOWN..

DARLING I NEED YOU TO..SWEETNESS WILL YOU CONTROL YOURSELF..PRECIOUS COME HERE NOW..


THIS IS WHAT WE ARE GOING TO DO MY TREASURE...GET OVER HERE AND GIVE ME A KISS... YOU ARE SO SWEET...AND..

IF YOU REALLY WANT TO GET HER HOT IN A HURRY ..AND CHASING YOU OUT THE DOOR..BANG YOUR FIST ON THE TABLE AND SAY ..SIT ON MY LAP NOW AND TELL ME WANT YOU THINK AND WHAT I SHOULD DO ABOUT.....

Attractive and powerful women do not respond to references to their appearance because...obvious ..and .. they are hyper attentive already to their appearance. Instead draw attention and show respect and appreciation to the person they have worked very hard in becoming.

This is my free advice feel free to quote me in your wonderful news letter.

you lead she'll follow

Sincerely,
Desiree-

JA: Desiree, thanks for the great email--I couldn't have said it better myself. Guys if you read through her email, you'll notice she's referring to what I call "switching"--rapidly transitioning from one aspect of your personality to another--in this case from authoritative to "naughty-sincere." This is the power of authority, as revealed by a woman.

Women love men with personal authority. They crave them, especially in this age of "sensitivity" and wussiness. Give her what she wants, and she'll give you what you want.

To discover how to become the authoritative man women can't resist, go to http://www.johnalanis.com/authority.htm right now.

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Like Desiree said, if you can't define authority, you can't create attraction. Go to http://www.johnalanis.com/authority.htm now.

Posted by john at 04:11 PM

The truth about confidence

Hey guys,

Today I want to cover what I call "foundational stuff"... skills everyone knows you should have that are necessary, but are often overlooked in favor of "more advanced" skills. The truth is though, the "advanced skills" are worthless without a firm foundation, and if you're not getting the results you want, it's often because your foundation has eroded.

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Everyone knows women "love a confident man." But, what specifically does "confidence" mean? Few people really know, even though they like to throw the word around. For instance, I appeared on a national radio program Saturday night, and one of the hosts kept saying, "oh you're just talking about being confident."
Well, yes and no. See, there are several components to "confidence" and few people know what they really are. So, since I'm such a generous guy, I figured I'd tell you today!

Confidence to me, means a strong self image coupled with "preparedness." Both of these are important, because both can be created formulaically. "Confidence" by itself cannot be created, but once broken down into its components, the components can be created and strung together to create the emotional state known as confidence.

I can't teach you to be confident. But I can sure teach you how to build a strong self image, and how to be prepared.

One of the best books ever written on building the self image is Zero Resistance Living by Maxwell Maltz. In it, Maltz talks about designing, creating and building the self image you desire... as you build your self image, your life will begin to change in alignment with your new self image. Dr. Maltz is also the author Psychocybernetics, and I highly suggest you check out www.psycho-cybernetics.com if you want to discover how to quickly and easily create the self image to give you the outcomes you desire.

If you want to know where most guys fall down with women, it's the "preparedness" part. Why? Because it requires time, energy, and effort. It requires you to invest in your education, to take risks and spend money on information. It requires you to use and implement this information, and to correct any implementation mistakes. Most guys are not willing to pay this price... much easier to spend their time talking and drinking beer with other guys who are talking and drinking beer.

Preparedness is hard... but when you're prepared you get results.
I've seen confident guy after confident guy get shot down in flames by a beautiful woman who was initially attracted to him simply because he wasn't prepared to create a powerful feeling of attraction in her. He said or did something that flipped off the attraction triggers, and off she went with him never knowing why. It's not enough to have a strong self image... you have to be prepared as well. Only when you combine the two will you have true confidence.

On with the fun...

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS For the "ultimate in preparedness," check out http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm

***Important Note***
All of my daily emails are posted and archived at
www.JohnAlanis.com So, if you missed one, just go
and read it online!
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Posted by john at 10:07 AM