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March 26, 2006

Secrets of effortless communication

Dear friend and subscriber,

Imagine, having a desirable woman walk up to you, and start a conversation--do you know what to say next? You'd better--because those next few seconds are absolutely crucial, and it's where most men mess up what could be a great relationship with a great woman.

Luckily, it's easy to make sure you say the right thing to her... IF you know the secrets of effortless communication. Most men don't, and never will--but if you go to http://www.effortlesscommunication.com/enter.htm you'll be able to join the elite few who do.

Don't delay--to never feel nervous when talking to a woman again, go to http://www.effortlesscommunication.com/enter.htm right now.

On with the fun...


-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Are you ready to step up to the Big Leagues and win a life of power and success with women, never to be rejected again? If so, then go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm

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Posted by john at 04:58 PM

All that matters is results....

Hey guys,

People just love to give advice. Makes 'em feel good. A good friend and I were talking about this last night. He has a business that does over $400,000.00 per month, most of it on the internet. I consult with a company that does roughly about the same using direct mail, and I have my rapidly growing "women approach you" business.

In all three businesses we hear the same thing: "your emails are too long, your letters are too long, you send out too much stuff, you should only send one email a week, you should space out what you do" and on and on and on.

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Here's a funny thing: I don't recognize the names of any of the guys that tell me this, and neither does my friend. And both he and I go to--and speak at--a lot of seminars. Heck, we even hold out own. At the company I consult with we routinely charge $4900.00 for people to come sit with us in our office for two days... and we have a waiting list of people wanting to do so.

Both of us "get out" a lot, and we know who the doers are in this business and who the talkers are. When a new doer comes along, he or she is immediately noticed... and welcomed by all the other doers. When yet another talker comes along we pay no attention. And I can tell you this: the doers never send me, or my friend, emails giving us marketing advice. Why? Because if we want their advice we ASK them, and then pay them big sums of money.

I'm not telling you all this to brag. I'm telling you this because I want to prove a point.

I want to let you guys in on a HUGE secret, one that can skyrocket your success with women, and in every other area of your life: I do what I do, and teach what I teach because it works. Plain and simple. If it doesn't work I don't do it. And I don't teach it. I always laugh when I hear guys (who I've never heard of, or anyone in my peer group has never heard of) tell me, "if you wrote less, you'd sell more." Oh really? And what, specifically do you base that on? I always get a dumb look when I ask them that. No one, and I mean no one has ever whipped out a financial statement or a sales report and said, "Here this proves it: I tested these 5 'short copy' letters against these 5 'long copy' ones and the short copy out-pulled the long copy 3.5 to one." I've never heard that and I never will.

Why? Because longer letters work better. And they also take a lot longer to write. A lot longer. My http://www.effortlesscommunication.com/enter.htm website took three weeks from start to finish for me to write... and eight years of studying direct response copywriting to learn how to do so. Don't you think if I could put one paragraph on a web page with a picture of a beautiful woman next to it and get rich, I'd do it? Darn tootin' I would... I like to write, but I can think of a heck of a lot of other things I like to do as well. I write long copy sales letters, and I send two emails a day because it's what works. If sending one email a week got me the same or better results don't you think I'd do that? Heck, yeah I would... and I'd have a lot more time on my hands. But sending two emails a day is what works and that's why I do it. It really is as simple as that.

You think this would be common sense, but as they say, "common sense ain't so common." It takes a lot of time, energy and effort to learn to do what works (and even more to do it) and most guys just aren't willing to pay the price to do so.

Look, this isn't a marketing newsletter, but I want you to see the analogy here between what works in marketing and what works with women. I do what I do and teach what I teach when it comes to getting women to approach you because it's what works. Hey, my life would be perfect if 1) I could put up a short paragraph on a website and make a ton of dough and 2) I could use that time to go talk to women about Dallas Cowboys football and get their opinion on the TO signing.

However, last time I checked, the "Is TO the Devil" debate, no matter how interesting to me, doesn't create attraction in women. Being a "naughty little boy," setting and controlling frames, and defining authority works with women. Being a nice guy doesn't. So if you want to get results with women you can't mope around and say, "I wish I could find a woman who likes me for who I am." Sorry, if you're a "nice guy," NO woman is going to like you for who you are.

It just doesn't work. To get what you want, you have to give her what she wants, and that's a powerful sense of attraction. It's what works, plain and simple. And if you want real world results, you have to do what works. My, it sounds so simple... and it is. But most guys resist this to the death... just give into reality, do
what works and the world will give you what you want.

It really, truly is just... that... simple!

On with the fun...

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"


PS To discover what REALLY works with women, go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.

***Important Note***
All of my daily emails are posted and archived at
www.JohnAlanis.com So, if you missed one, just go
and read it online!
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Posted by john at 10:50 AM