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April 03, 2006

At last-- the King pays YOU

Dear friends and subscribers,

I am going to do something I rarely do--offer you something where,
instead of you paying money, I pay YOU money!

Here's how it works: I have set up an affiliate sales system via Click Bank for my Secrets of Natural Attraction digital products where you can claim a 70% commission on a $100.00 product. In other words, for every one you sell, you get $70.00! To sign up is free--to get started, just go to http://www.johnalanis.com/cbaffiliates.htm

Note that this affiliate system is only for my digital products, not my CD systems--only Doer's Only Insider's Club members may sell those (of course members may also use the Click Bank system as well--for info on the Doer's Only Insiders Club, go to http://www.johnalanis.com/doers_insiders_club.htm )

So, if you have a website, or are already an affiliate marketer, this may be the easiest money you ever make. In addition to paying a huge 70% commission, I also give you all the marketing tools, free--banners, emails, pop unders, text links, ezine ads, etc. Plus you get to use my tested, proven, kick-butt sales letter--all you have to do is get the traffic. To get started making some serious dough right now, go to http://www.johnalanis.com/cbaffiliates.htm

Again, it is free to join with nothing more to buy, ever.

I look forward to sending you some serious checks via Click Bank!

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Hurry and sign up--don't let other affiliate marketers get a jump on you. Go to http://www.johnalanis.com/cbaffiliates.htm right now

PPS Not interested in making money, but interested in attracting the women you desire? Then go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.

Posted by john at 04:49 PM

Q and A with doers

Hey guys...

What I'm going to do today is answer some questions that were sent in from some already successful students. These are guys who understand that "school is never out for the pro" and that no matter how much success you have, you can never stop learning. Pay close attention because there's a lot to learn from the questions, AND the answers.

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Hey John,

I'd have to agree with every single word Doug has written. It took me about 6 months to 'put it together' but it has been well worth it! His experiences are pretty much identical to mine.

My problem - I am seeing several women at the moment and a couple of them Know of each other (it's a small world!). If they both happen to be in the one spot (eg. a nightclub), how do I go about maintaining the attraction without making one of them feel like a 2nd class citizen? The reason I ask this question is that about a month a go I was at a bar with some friends and one of the ladies I was seeing saw me at a table with another lady (we're just mates) and I hardly hear
from her now.

I did say hello to her but I could tell by her body language that she really wanted me to hang with her (I like to go to bars to catch up with friends and see my lady friends in private). I feel
like I have made a huge tactical error, but is there anyway I can recover this situation. She probably thinks I'm a player but that's not what I'm about at all.



JA: Good to hear from you, Matt and congratulations on your continued success. Sometimes it takes hard work to get where you want to be (actually it does all of the time), but the results are always worth it, in addition to the feeling of achievement you get from setting a goal and accomplishing it.

In regards to your question, the thing to do is to treat both of them equally like you would if you were with one male friend, and happened to run into another. Treat them like friends, because that's what they are to you. Now, will this always work? Nope--there are times when some women are going to be jealous no matter what you do.

Just contact the one you ran into as you would a friend with no mention of you seeing her. There's no need to explain anything on your part, and no need to feel like you made an error--her feelings of jealousy (if that's what they are) are HER problem, not yours, and it's up to her to get over them if she wants to spend time with you. This has been my attitude for a long time, and it's amazing to see how women respond to it, when they discover that "jealousy" doesn't work with you.

Dear John,

I am a women and every single morning and every evening I have those feelings and those thoughts. How did you know? What I do not understand is what men are afraid of.


JA: Good to hear from you Desiree. For those of you who don't know what Desiree is referring to, I wrote an email a few days ago (you can read it at www.JohnAlanis.com ) talking about the fact that every woman wakes up with the thought in the back of her mind that today just might be the day an attractive man approaches her, and how women dream about this happening.

When you realize this, it gives you a tremendous power because you recognize that women are silently begging you to approach them.

As far as what men are afraid of, the truth is, it's the unknown.
Many are afraid of rejection or embarrassment, and haven't yet learned that, one, either of those two are unlikely unless you are a total wuss, and two, both of these emotions have no lasting effects. But once you understand how attraction works, these fears diminish and you realize attracting women is a lot of fun.


I have been quite successful with woman since reading your information. I have emphasized on-line dating because it is very convenient and a lot of the woman I meet I would never come in contact with on a regular bases due to location, timing, etc. It seems to me that a lot of the woman I meet are very open on-line and on the phone but in person they are more reserved and closed, shy.

I usually combat this by asking a lot of questions and just being naturally naughty like I already am. It still makes me think here we go again! I am still having fun it just takes longer to get them to the state I want them in. I was wondering it you have observed this and what are your thoughts?


JA: Good to hear from you Brian, and congratulations on your online success. I am a big fan of online dating, both for the reasons you mention and for other reasons. And yes, I have experienced the same thing you have--when you meet in person for the first time, a lot of women can be reserved and shy.

What they really are is nervous. Think about it: they've met a guy online (still somewhat of a social taboo), then agreed to meet him (a stranger) in person, and they don't know what to expect. Many have met a lot of wusses and are worried they're meeting another one.

The thing to do is, well, what you're doing--use your behavior to relax her, get her laughing, get her comfortable and move her back into the same state as when you talked to her on the phone. My experience is it usually takes at least 10 minutes to get her there, so I concentrate on that for the first ten minutes. You can "feel" when she relaxes and the tension melts away. This is just a phenomena associated with the method by which you met her and is to be expected. The way you're handling it is just fine--you lead, she follows.

Don't forget to stay tuned to today's afternoon episode for an important announcement!

On with the fun...

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Would you like to have the power to choose your own relationships with women, instead of having them chosen for you like most men do? If so, then go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now, before this website is removed.

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Posted by john at 10:39 AM