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April 08, 2006

What do women have to say about the King's attraction secrets?

Dear friends and subscribers,

Can you really learn anything about women from women? Well, yes and no. Most women will tell you what they think they want, not what they respond to. But every now and then, you come across a woman who tells you what women truly respond to.

My friend Shelley McMurtry is that woman--and a few weeks ago, I got her to reveal, in a private phone call (limited to only 30 people) her most forbidden attraction secrets, the truth about what women respond to. I must say it was quite a revealing call, and I found myself taking notes, even though I was the one interviewing her.

The bad news is, you missed the call. The good news is, I recorded, and for a limited time you can get your hands on the CD's of this remarkable call, where you'll discover first hand from a woman what women really respond to.

For all the details, simply go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_attraction.htm before I decide to remove this site for good... after all, I don't want the whole world getting in on these jealously guarded secrets.


On with the fun...

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Don't miss out on your opportunity to discover how to attract sexy women as told by a sexy woman. Go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_attraction.htm right now!


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Posted by john at 04:53 PM

He's handsome, attractive, intelligent and alone-- why?

Hey guys,

I can't believe we're getting close to the NFL draft again. It's one of my favorite times of year, but I've had so much to do (like testing new attraction strategies for you guys) I haven't paid as much attention this year as in years past.

Last year I actually went to New York with a buddy of mine and attended the draft, sleeping in front of the Jacob Javits Center (it's at Radio City Music Hall this year) to get in. It was worth it though--nothing like football in April.

Anyways, I received a really good question yesterday, so I'm going to take a bit of time to answer it today.

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John:

Could you please explain the difference, at least from a woman's perspective, what the difference is between being "attractive" and being "attracted to". Confidentially I recently had a young lady that said she found me very handsome, attractive, intelligent, funny, and had a lot going for me. Yet she said she was not necessarily attracted to me. I never heard that before. I really don't care, the other qualities are pretty good for what you call an "adventure" but I am not sure if I can pull that off with her. What do you think?

BJ

JA: Thanks for the question, BJ--it actually brings up a very important point. She's describing qualities in you that make you socially attractive--i.e. if she were to see them on paper, she would describe you as an attractive guy. But if, when she's around you, she doesn't feel that powerful sense of attraction, she won't be interested in you. It's the feeling she makes decisions on, not the social qualities.

I know guys who have lots of female friends (not by choice--the women put them into the friends category) who are always telling them what a "great catch" they are, and how they'll make a woman very happy. They may even try to set him up on dates with their friends. But when you ask her why she's not dating this "incredible catch" she'll get confused and finally say, "well, I just don't think about him in that way. He's a friend."

What she's really saying is she doesn't feel a powerful sense of attraction around him, no matter his socially attractive qualities. Male behavior creates attraction, not looks, age or income. There are lots of smart, handsome, rich guys out there who get lots of first dates--but no second ones. The reason is their behavior kills attraction, it doesn't create it.

In your case, she could just be testing you, she could just be playing around to see how you respond. It depends what her behavior is towards you. But review your behavior to make sure you're defining authority, and showing her your naughty/funny side, enough so to create that feeling of attraction with her.

On with the fun--

-John Alanis
The King of Let 'em Come to You

PS Ready to be the naughty boy women can't resist? Then go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now before it's too late!


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Posted by john at 10:48 AM