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April 27, 2006

Will you be her #1 pick? Or a first round bust?

Dear friends and subscribers,

If you're a football fan like me, you know the NFL draft is happening this weekend. I love the draft because it is full of mystery and intrigue--who will be picked where, and how will they perform? Evaluate correctly and you might just draft the next big thing... evaluate poorly and you'll have just another bust on your hands.

Guess what? The same thing happens when attracting women.
Evaluate correctly, and you might have the one you're looking for.
Evaluate poorly, and you'll have a lot of agony on your hands.

Luckily, I have an "expert draft guide" for attracting the right woman. And, for a limited time, it is available to all men, to help you to cut down on your bad picks, and increase your good ones. To discover how you can become a "draft guru" with women, simply go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.

On with the fun...

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Choose wisely now, or pay the price later. Go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm at once.

Posted by john at 04:41 PM

Ain't no shame in being broke-- lots in staying there

Hey guys,

One of my favorite sayings has always been this: "Ain't no shame in being broke, but there's a lot if you stay that way."

Truer words were never spoken. I've been broke several times in my life... but I sure as heck didn't stay that way. Oh, I could have whined and peed and moaned and begged others to "take pity on poor me" and give me things, but I didn't.

Nope, instead I took action, got the information I needed, used it, and learned how to make money without money. It turned out to be one of the most valuable things I ever did.

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Here's one huge lesson I learned during that phase of my life: no one, and I mean no one, in this country is really broke. Look, I was living in the office space of a warehouse with no shower, and no hot water, $15,000.00 in credit card debt... by any stretch of the imagination that's broke. But... I always found money to eat, and I found money to buy information with. And when I used that information, I went from broke to flush in a matter of months.

Why do I bring all this up? Lately, I've been getting a lot of emails (and regular mail) from guys whining about how broke they are, and asking me to give them my Ultimate System ( http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm ) free.

I've gotta laugh when I see these emails. Why? Because they "ain't broke." They're just not willing to do the things necessary to come up with the extra money. Now, they obviously have money for an internet connection, and if I were to sit down and examine their spending habits I'll bet you I'd find they were eating at fast food joints, playing video games, going to the movies and probably swilling a lot of beer. All things they could live without.

What they're really saying is, "I value my fun in the moment over information that could give me a lifetime of power and freedom with women." They're not willing to pay the price for success, which in this case is small.

And if you're not willing to pay the price for success, you will never, ever be successful no matter how much information or money someone gives you. Why? Because success lies in the way you perceive yourself... if you think you're broke, you will be.

As many of you guys know, I'm a huge Bill Parcells fan. In a press conference a few months ago, Parcells was asked why some very talented guys fail miserably in the NFL. Here's what he said: "There's a price to be paid for everything. Everything. And most guys are not willing to pay the price for success. They say they are, but they're not. They really aren't. And you have to be able to look in the mirror and ask yourself if you're willing to pay that price. You can't lie to yourself. If you are truly willing, then you have to be willing to do the things that make you successful, you have to pay the price. If you aren't, that's OK... go find something else to do. But you have to honest with yourself about whether or not you're willing to pay the price. And quite frankly, most guys aren't."

When I was broke, I considered it a temporary situation... the decimal point in my bank account was just in the wrong place and it would quickly right itself over time. Which it did (although it's time for it to move a few more decimal places). Why? Because I was willing to pay the price for success. Most are not.

"Broke" is nothing more than a mental state, whether you're broke in money, or broke in women. Look, if you go find a bum on the street and give him $25,000.00, where do you think he will be in 6 months? Right back in the street, having boozed away $25,000.00. Giving him something won't help them. Only he can truly help himself.

So for all you guys who keep telling me you're "broke" you need to go find a mirror and look in it. Ask yourself this question, "Am I willing to pay the price for success? Am I willing to do what is necessary to be successful with women?"

Let me tell you a quick story: I got an email from a guy named Stu a few days ago. He's a young guy, just starting out. Did he ask me for something free? No... he asked if he could send me a check, even though he didn't have much money. So I told him, yeah, go ahead, and gave him specific directions on what to do.

Guess what? Stu found a way to get the money and mailed it to me.
No whining, no peeing, no moaning, just action. Didn't ask me for anything free (I wouldn't have given it to him, either--giving people free stuff is no good because they don't value or use it). And this guy's younger than most guys reading this. You know what? He'll be successful, too. Why? Because he's willing to pay the price. Even at his age, he's willing to pay the price and invest in education. I like guys like Stu... guys who take action instead of whining for help.

Look, I realize there's been a bit of "tough love" in this email.
But I'm not going to sugarcoat things. When it comes to women, when it comes to success, there's what works and what doesn't. And you have to be able to pay the price to learn what works.

Or you'll always be broke. Always.

On with the fun....

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Are you willing to pay the price for success? Only you can answer that question--but to discover if you are, go to

Posted by john at 10:43 AM