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May 10, 2006

Are you just plain scared of rejection?

Dear friends and subscribers,

Do you get nervous and "tense up" when you even think about approaching a women? Well, so do I... even if she's a "mutt."

That's why I engineer "attraction systems" that get them to approach me first! Now, women are the ones who are nervous and scared of rejection when they approach me... which is the way it should be!

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Ah, how sweet it is to have a gorgeous woman walk up to you and stumble and fumble over her words because she's scared you'll reject her! Won't you join me in success? Go to http://www.effortlesscommunication.com/enter.htm to find out more.

On with the fun....

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

Posted by john at 04:53 PM

Ignore the fundamentals and fail...

Dear friends and subscribers,

Why do most men fail with women? They either don't know--or ignore--the fundamentals. So, today I want to give you a brief review of some of the most important attraction creating fundamentals. If you're currently having a difficult time with women, it's probably because you are violating one or more of these basics.

Unlock your full male potential now... discover how to get beautiful, desirable women to approach you first for a date, no matter your looks, age or income. If you simply want to "have fun" or meet that one special one, these will work for you. To discover secrets to getting women to approach you, secrets that have been kept from you until now, go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm for an unusual free report

#1: Attraction is created by authority. You, as a man, must be able to define authority for a woman. She wants it, she craves it. Most men either let the woman control the authority, or worse yet, they mistake authority for abuse of authority and are mean and controlling. Authority simply means taking the lead in a way that makes her want to do what you want her to do. A man with true authority rarely raises his voice--he simply smiles, says how it's going to be, and she joyfully follows along (for more about authority see www.johnalanis.com/authority.htm ).

#2 Great women are everywhere and if it doesn't work out with one, there are plenty of others to take her place. Most guys get caught up in "one special girl," instead of realizing there are lots of special girls. If you have a scarcity mentality, thinking she's "the one" you'll come across as desperate, killing attraction. If, however, you realize there are lots of "ones" you'll come from a place of abundance, which is very attractive.

#3 If you can create attraction, you are the prize. Understand this: what women really want is to feel the magical, wonderful feeling of attraction. That's it--and very few guys have a clue about how to create it. When you master this skill, you will be a rare commodity and can choose any woman you want. Looks don't matter, age doesn't matter, and income doesn't matter--all that matters to her is that wonderful feeling.

#4 Nice guys finish last, naughty boys finish first. For whatever reason, the cocky, naughty, funny male attitude bordering on the verge of arrogance creates attraction. Teasing her, giving her a good time in a bad way, acting like you don't care creates attraction. It's what works, plain and simple. If you want results, you must do what works.

#5 Women don't just want a "naughty boy" they want a man with a naughty boy side. This is an important delineation. Although the naughty boy creates initial attraction, that attraction will die if that's all you are. To deepen the attraction, you must "switch" from the naughty boy to the sincere, interested MAN, and back again at the right moment. It's this "switching" that deepens attraction and bonds her to you. Women love "predictably unpredictable men" and this "switching" creates that.

Are there other things you need to know about attraction? Sure--but if you make sure to employ these fundamentals, you will attract a heck of a lot of women. Violate them, and you will attract zero. When all else fails, always come back to the fundamentals.

On with the fun,

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

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Posted by john at 10:46 AM