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May 21, 2006

Never feel inadequate again

Dear friends and subscribers,

There's nothing worse than watching some other guy succeed with the woman you truly desire, nothing worse than feeling inadequate, wondering if he really is a better man than you.

Why do men feel inadequate at times? The truth is, it's not their fault--they just weren't taught the secrets of the one thing that kills in adequacy and creates attraction: personal authority.

Luckily, authority is a skill, learnable by any man, and when you learn this skill (it's really easy), you'll never feel inadequate again. Now, it's you who will get the girl while other guys look on... and that's the best feeling in the world.

To discover the secrets of personal authority, go to http://www.johnalanis.com/authority.htm right now, before it's too late

On with the fun...

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Personal authority in a man is like a narcotic to women... they can't resist. That's the good news. The bad news is, if you don't give it to them, they'll leave and find a man who will... and that's what makes men feel totally inadequate. Don't be the man they're leaving, be the man they run to. Go to http://www.johnalanis.com/authority.htm right now.

Posted by john at 04:51 PM

The automatic idiot

Hey guys,

A few days ago I turned on ABC's 20/20 and happened to catch a show about "Getting Rich--The Poor Man's Guide." Some of it was OK, and some of it was wretched, but it was entertaining.

One of the so called gurus they interviewed was a guy named David Bach, who's well known for his book "The Automatic Millionaire." It's a book the media loves, and for good reason--it meshes well with their scarcity mindset.

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The premise of the book is simple: have a look at your expenses, cut out stuff like "lattes," invest the money you save, and buy your own house. Not bad advice--at least not from a mathematical point of view. But from a wealth mindset point of view? Terrible advice.

Here's why: it forces you into a scarcity mindset, forces you to believe that the way to wealth is to save your way to a fortune. In other words, you're not creating value, you're actually diminishing it. You're trading your years for dollars and by the time you're "rich," you have little time left to enjoy it.

See, the right question to ask is, "how can I create value so I can enjoy all the lattes, and all the stuff I want while I still have time to enjoy it?" Instead of saving your way to a long off fortune (via a scarcity mindset), you create a fortune via an abundance mindset, by creating value for others and getting compensated for it. In other words, you orient your mind towards making money, instead of saving.

This is a mindset the media will never, ever get, and in fact the mindset most people are stuck in. They're focused on saving, not creating, and their scarcity mindset repels, not attracts.

Men who are truly attractive to women have an abundance mindset.
They believe money and wealth are abundant, and they believe desirable women are abundant. They think in terms of "how can I create" instead of "how can I save so I won't lose what I have." The end result is, they wind up either poor (in money and relationships) or so old that they can't truly enjoy what they've saved their whole life for.

Nothing wrong with sound money management or relationship management, as long as there's the belief of abundance behind it. If not, all you'll become is another automatic idiot... and Lord knows we have enough of those running around.

Just turn on the TV and you'll see that in action, all day, every day.

On with the fun--

-John Alanis
The King of Let 'em Come to You

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Posted by john at 10:55 AM